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Im cool with gay people as long as they dont touch me, or talk to me or anything. Some people view it as ignorant but when i was a child i was taught being gay was wrong. Its abnormal, and anything thats not normal human beings will criticise.

Will gays eventually have equal rights? Yes, but not anytime soon.
 
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andcuriouser

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Isn't "not talking" to gay people a little excessive? I mean, what if the teller at the bank was gay? Or me? You've talked to me.
 
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Isn't "not talking" to gay people a little excessive? I mean, what if the teller at the bank was gay? Or me? You've talked to me.
Yeah through a computer screen, in reality if i thought you were gay i wouldent come near you. Its just something i was taught as a kid, and also religeosly because i consider myself religeos and am planning on converting to catholicism.
 

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hmm so do you talk to people that don't go to church on sundays... or people that have stolen stuff..or people that have had affairs..well if your gonna be like that about non-heteros you might as well not talk to anybody that has commited a sin for fear of "association".

it will help you build up plenty of things to discuss with jesus when you get to heaven...
 
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hmm so do oyu talkt o people that don;t go to churhc on sundays... or peopel that have stolen stuff..or people that have had affairs..well if your gonan be liek that you might as well nto talk to anybody that has commited a sin for fear of "association".

it will help you build up plenty of things to discuss with jesus when you get to heaven...
Iev stolen myself, iev had premarital sex, iev sinned in many ways but im in the process of bettering myself. Im out of gang banging and out of the 'hood'. Iev moved on to a better life you know. Im trying to move up in life. I break the law all the time, but i try not to break god's rules. God put me on this planet, i owe god my life.

Im trying to start going to church now, iev gone 3 week's in a row.
 

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well i can commend you for the church going and hte bettering yourself..but avoiding "gays" like the plaugue is kinda not whats in the teachings ....
 

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The problem With the whole Theory is..

You cant just look at someone and know they are Gay, You could be talking to one and not even know it.

So, Hypathetically, You get to be great friends with someone you hang out with in class.. Hell maybe its even someone you meet at church.. get along great, have everything in common, music, jokes, Movies..

And then BAM.. He tells you he's Gay? Would you just stop talking to him for that simple fact?
 

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Oh.

That seems... really dumb.

Nah, it doesn't seem dumb, it is dumb. It's not like being gay is a disease(DON'T START WITH ME MAN! :tongue: ), and it certainly can't be a sin. I mean, if it is, the bible is full of it. It says that God loves ALL his children. Besides, talking to Lel, or anybody for that matter, in person, it's not like you'll be guilty by association. Yeah, I seet that.

You: So God, Heaven or Hell?
God: Well, there was that time 50 years ago when you talked to that gay man, so...HELL!

I just don't see that happening. Even if I was an extreme Christian who hated gay people, I'd make an exception with Lel, he pwns :D

And like Silent said, you don't always know if someone is gay or not. So not talking, that's a bit extreme. Here's my philosophy for being friends with a gay person. I fully support marriage, adoption, etc. I'm fine with hanging out, even being alone wouldn't freak me out. The only time I'll get defensive AT ALL is if the person tries to make any moves on me, and even then, I'd simply tell them I'm not gay.
 
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The problem With the whole Theory is..

You cant just look at someone and know they are Gay, You could be talking to one and not even know it.

So, Hypathetically, You get to be great friends with someone you hang out with in class.. Hell maybe its even someone you meet at church.. get along great, have everything in common, music, jokes, Movies..

And then BAM.. He tells you he's Gay? Would you just stop talking to him for that simple fact?
Yeah basicly
 

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Hahahaha... thanks, Dodge.

But on a more serious topic: gay people aren't some kind of horny rabbit. Don't flatter yourselves. :tongue: No one wants to jump you if you aren't interested.
 
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That's not very realistic at all. Imagine you were friends with someone since childhood, and ten, twenty years later s/he tells you s/he's gay. I can't imagine just dropping someone like that.
Iev done it before. In my eyes, its just not right. Its nor normal. Its like hanging out with a pedofile(not to compare gays to pedofiles).

But hey ndcurious, if you wish to change i can help you. there are many programs which can help you change cuzz.
 

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Are there really programs to help me change? To help me leave my husband and stop all the paperwork for adopting a child? Oh man, let me get right on that.

I would LOVE to live in misery and self-denial! My mother would be thrilled!
 
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Are there really programs to help me change? To help me leave my husband and stop all the paperwork for adopting a child? Oh man, let me get right on that.

I would LOVE to live in misery and self-denial! My mother would be thrilled!

Since people 'turn' gay and bisexual every day, im sure people can turn straight also
 

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People don't "turn gay". They either come out and stop pretending to be straight, or they're lying and trying to justify something they did while drunk.
 

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a) It doesn't matter how often you hear it, my point still stands.

b) Teenage girls are hardly an accurate indicator for an entire population of gay, bi/pansexual, lesbian, transgendered (etc. etc.) people.
 

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Hahahaha... thanks, Dodge.

But on a more serious topic: gay people aren't some kind of horny rabbit. Don't flatter yourselves. :tongue: No one wants to jump you if you aren't interested.

Fine, I see how it's gonna be. That's the last time I hit on you! :jk

Iev done it before. In my eyes, its just not right. Its nor normal. Its like hanging out with a pedofile(not to compare gays to pedofiles).

But hey ndcurious, if you wish to change i can help you. there are many programs which can help you change cuzz.

Ok, now see, that's where most people start hating me. I hang out with a pedophile, but he's not really a pedophile. Falsely charged with the title, and I'd be happy to explain why. But dude, I'm soryr, but that's where I draw the line. That is uncalled for, saying something like, "I can help you change". Obviously he's content with his sexuality. He's married. It's not like he'll just say, "Hey Matt, I'm straight, bye".

b) Teenage girls are hardly an accurate indicator for an entire population of gay, bi/pansexual, lesbian, transgendered (etc. etc.) people.

Great example, my friend Savannah. She was first straight, then dated a girl, then "turned bi", then went "pansexual", now she's straight again. Make up yoru fucking mind.

Now Lel, my question. Say for example, a boy likes girls most of his life. Then he eventually realizes he likes boys more than girls. Couldn't that be considered "turning gay"? I mean, I may be getting mixed up, but just my thoughts.
 
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