Alex Kanashi
New Member
First, I think it's cute you guys are planing on getting married. As far as a kid is concern, I think you should wait to see if you and him are right enough in the relationship before you go through with adopting a kid.
Basicly yes. United states is a christian country, christians dont like gay people. This is why gay people will always have a hard timeWell then, evidently we all have the same opinion so there is no point in arguing.
Basicly yes. United states is a christian country, christians dont like gay people. This is why gay people will always have a hard time
In regards to "pushing sexuality"... don't straight couples do that too? I mean, you're never really given the option as a child. I certainly wasn't, and my mother did everything to keep me from living the (happy) life I'm living now. It's very important to me not to push that at all. I don't care if a child of mine were straight/gay/bi/trans/purple whatever. It's just important to me that they're nurtured and well-loved. And Matt and I aren't exactly unusual guys. We don't live the "typical" gay lifestyle or anything. No promiscuity, no bad drugs, nothing like that. We're planning on quitting smoking and getting a bigger house before we ever adopt, but that's pretty standard, I'd say.
Matt and I are still just talking about this. We're not married yet, because we want to wait until we're completely ready. It's been four years we've been together now, but we're still going to wait, and we won't be adopting (if we do) until after we're legally married.
I'm just so glad we can adopt together in Canada. Pretty much anywhere else (even Norway, where I want to move back to!) one of us would have to be a single applicant, and then the other could adopt after that whole thing was through. That's a hassle.
Dude Go for it... parental ability has nothing to do with your sexual preference.
IMO, all in all the kid will grow up learning about other ways of life, and will be more adept to deal and argue for it.
Don't tell my aunt you're gay. She's so anti gay it's stupid. I guess they're not humans anymore apparently. (Now you see part of the reason I hate religious zealots)
It's the same debate with all these ex-gay things. When these gay people "choose" to be straight, all they're doing is changing behavior, not orientation. It's a very important difference.
I just don't understand why gay people are supposedly given this mysterious choice, when no straight person ever says, "yeah, I decided to be straight." I don't remember this choice. When did I make this choice? Was I very drunk?
Eh, more people could be gay in the first place. THAT could help overpopulation.
There really is none. Aside from the fact that it goes against moral's, and the fact it goes against christianity. As much as people say 'it doesnt matter'. It does. The united states is a christian country, like it or not. It will always be.
I say go for it man. You two obviously love each other a lot, and like James said, the kid would probably even learn to accept more and learn different ways of life in a situation like that. And you're right, I've seen many straight people push their sexuality on others. Hell, any time you make a joke relating to anything being gay, my parents are always like, "We don't care if you're gay, but we want grandkids!". Actually, that'd be my mom, my dad said he'd disown the gay child. Which is shit, that's very wrong.
My next door neighbor's the same way, and I hate his guts. His brother was even gay, and he said, "I love my brother and all, but that faggot's going to hell". I felt the urge to stab him :mad
That is a perfect example, the "deciding to be straight" thing. Nobody seems to think of it that way.
No, you are wrong, and obviously don't real. Like we've both said, Lel dind't choose to be gay, he didn't just say one day, "I think I'll be gay". Choosing to do the speed limit vs homosexuality are two completely different subjects. And yes, I was born straight, but I don't choose to be straight because of they way I was taught. I like girls, boobs are awesome in my opinion. That's it. I didn't say, "Well, God wants me to create a life, and I see everyone else fuck women, so maybe I'll try that". God didn't create us JUST to create more people. If we were put on earth just to fuck and make babies, we wouldn't have things like jobs, computers, etc. We'd all be running around naked fucking anything that walks.
Normal? Who's to say what's "normal"? Normal is a term created by us humans. Just like time, it doesn't exist. Time is an illusion. Time was created by us humans, because we can't just say to a friend, "Hey, meet me here tomorrow when the sun is over there!".
The main thing I think is you people that are saying it's a choice, USE A VALID EXAMPLE, like Lel did. Comparing homosexuality to speeding or drinking beer is BULLSHIT, that is COMPLETELY different.
Basicly yes. United states is a christian country, christians dont like gay people. This is why gay people will always have a hard time
You don't see Lel insulting us for being straight. Have you ever seen a gay person say, "God hates you, you're straight!" It's really immature, being against homosexuality.
Hey, you! Straight person! Get the hell off my lawn! You're a siiiinner!
Are you talking to me? Because I didn't say you were a sinner.
No... I quoted Dodge. I was joking...
Hey, you! Straight person! Get the hell off my lawn! You're a siiiinner!
Bahaha, that's a sig quote right there!
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