Why would I care who makes a person horny unless I was interested in being one of those people? It's not relevant whether someone is gay or straight unless you are interested in sex with that person. Since it's not relevant, insisting on knowing anyway is just to satisfy curiosity, and maybe get points with the gossip crowd.
I think the point he was trying to make is... why does it matter if they are gay or straight and why should they tell you either way?
Does that mean that you expect your heterosexual friends to tell you that they are straight? And with your statement, you aren't even talking about friends or acquaintances. Your statement comes with the feeling that you deal with people differently depending on sexual preference. So when you buy something, you want to know if the cashier is gay or straight so you can deal with them differently???
Fair enough I will take it I didn't express in the best way I could have..
To me it is really irrelevant.. What I was trying to say is I rather someone be honest with me than afraid to tell me they are gay..
I deal with everyone the same way. Why would it matter if someone is gay, brown, black or even from another planet as long as they are respectful.. That applies for religions as well.
No I don't ask people what they are and couldn't care less. When was the last time any of you walked up to someone and asked "are you gay, straight, married or Jewish" at a grocery store or anywhere else ?
I have taught my kids, to look at people the same way, and always respect others but the reality is that you will run into different people everywhere..
And the whole context of my post was based on
Really.. How do you propose "beating the gay" out of them.. Beating them till they die ?
You can beat them till they say they are not gay anymore but that will only be a lie..
Personally I rather know if someone is gay then a closet gay.. I rather know what I am dealing with..
Hence all you are doing is making people hide their beliefs..
Again I would rather my kids, my kids friends and any one else be able to talk to me if they reach the point of suicide..
Perhaps you can tell me but may be its the fact Canada is open about this subject that makes us capable of discussing it more freely.