Bi/Lesbian/Gay Parents

[SRC]

God, I can't believe the amount of crap and misconceptions in this thread I'm reading! Scot, why are you so hung up on proving that gay sex is more dangerous? What do you want them to do? Say "Oh yes! Being straight is much safer, I'll stop fancying my own sex?"
From those stats GLing posted there's a high rate of AIDs in Africa too. AID's is more prevelant in different places. So what do you want Africans to do? Stop having sex as well?

You can only get AIDs from a gay person! FACT! Maybe there is and maybe there isn't more people with AIDs who are gay, it dosen't mean being gay is more dangerous! The only think which effects how dangerous or not it is is the precausions you take, both straight and gay people! So you reckon there are lots of gay people with AIDs running around having casual sex with multiple partners without telling them about it? Well hello! What the fuck are you doing having unprotected sex with a male slut anyway? This works exactly the same way as it does straight people!

Oh and what a load of bullshit about you can't be gay unless you've had gay sex and the only gay sex you can have is anal! Hello! Never heard of oral or something?

Anyway, what has this got to do with the topic? Are you trying to say people with AIDs are crap parents now?
*Walks of shaking head in disbelief at this thread!*

No one is trying to say anything like that Peter, or I'm not anyways. I simply responded with an alterior answer to why people think Gay sex is more dangerous. I would feelsorry for the children of an AIDS patient, if anything ... because they will prematurly lose a parent.

The numbers alone prove that gay males have a higher risk of occurance of contracting AIDS than herterosexuals do, based on the type of sex involved. If they aren't having "sex" as in intercourse/penetration/oral then they have absolutely nothing to worry about and aren't included in the statistics. But the ones who are .. are putting themselves at higher risk .. based on the type sexual activity they choose to partake in.

You can also get AIDS from oral sex as well, if you aren't extremely careful .. all it takes are a set of bleeding gums after brushing your teeth.

Does that mean gay parents aren't as good as parents as straight parents .. who knows.

It's not something that has been going on as long as heterosexual parenting. It's new .. and basically unexplored .. so you have to expect when asking a bunch of people on the internet that it is going to do nothing more than provide a bunch of hypotheticals and opinions .. plain truth is .. there aren't enough "Facts" to base a proper conclusion on ATM in history, just emotions.

 

[Peter Parka]

Oh, well if it's about facts, I haven't seen a single fact which shows that someone is a bad parent because of being gay.:smiley24:

 

[Pudding Time]

Those stats he posted are from the CDC. They are not making those up as a conspiracy to slander homosexuals.

No one on god's earth earth knows how many gay people there are, let alone how many with AIDS.

Also, no one knows how many straight people have AIDS either. Those stats seriously don't mean a damn thing.

 

[SRC]

I think the conversation migrated away from that and onto AIDs .. for whatever reason.

No one has said gay parents would be bad, that I've read.

 

[SRC]

No one on god's earth earth knows how many gay people there are, let alone how many with AIDS.

Also, no one knows how many straight people have AIDS either. Those stats seriously don't mean a damn thing.

the stats are based on the amount of people who have been treated/diagnosed with the AIDS virus.

They take those numbers and adjust for how many patients are straight .. and how many are gay .. and provide a percentage based on which sexual community has shown more cases.

I know you aren't that dull minded, so quit trying to ac tlike it. Jeeze.

If you have 10,000 AIDs patients total, and 2000 are straight and the other 8,000 are gay .. that is a great indicator to which sexual community, in the particular area the study is taking place, is showing to be more likely in contracting the virus more readily.

 

[Peter Parka]

No one has said gay parents would be bad, that I've read.

My Uncle is gay, and I think he would make a wonderful father. I don't think his parter would make a great addition to the family though. I think the kid would come up confused.

:dunno Appologies if I'm I've somehow read this the wrong way.

 

[Pudding Time]

the stats are based on the amount of people who have been treated/diagnosed with the AIDS virus.

They take those numbers and adjust for how many patients are straight .. and how many are gay .. and provide a percentage based on which sexual community has shown more cases.

I know you aren't that dull minded, so quit trying to ac tlike it. Jeeze.

If you have 10,000 AIDs patients total, and 2000 are straight and the other 8,000 are gay .. that is a great indicator to which sexual community, in the particular area the study is taking place, is showing to be more likely in contracting the virus more readily.

Oh you wanna call me dull minded? Ok. Why don't you quit acting like a bitch?

I know exactly how they get those stats. They still don't mean shit. You can use it as an "indicator" if you want to be ignorant. If you have 10000 gay patients, 8000 of them test positive for AIDS, would you say 80% of the gay population has AIDS? Only if you want to be ignorant. The only way to be acturate is to know the medical status of ALL homosexuals. And there is no way possible to do that.

 

[solan]

wow what a wonderfully cheery conversation,.....hi im new

 

[SRC]

:dunno Appologies if I'm I've somehow read this the wrong way.

I think he may be referring to the actual person, not the fact that he is gay. Straight or gay .. you don't always like the people your relatives date .. the guy might just be a complete prick, ya know?

 

[juggler]

wow what a wonderfully cheery conversation,.....hi im new

I think you picked the wrong thread to introduce yourself my friend!!!
Go to new members and start an "I'm new" thread. You'll get a much more positive response!!!

 

[SRC]

Oh you wanna call me dull minded? Ok. Why don't you quit acting like a bitch?

you know what .. I didn't call you dull minded, I said I know you aren't .. so quit acting like you are. You can call me a bitch for disagreeing with you or showing you that you're wrong all you want.

see...

I know you aren't that dull minded, so quit trying to ac tlike it. Jeeze.

But that's ok, I won't call you name .. like you will others. Consider yourself out in the open now. You're just a bad sport is all, not that everyone doesn't already know that.

 

[gLing]

No one on god's earth earth knows how many gay people there are, let alone how many with AIDS.

Also, no one knows how many straight people have AIDS either. Those stats seriously don't mean a damn thing.

That's why when you take statistical sampling you will never know the full numbers but it can give you an idea. Those stats are based on reported cases and rely on who reports to being homosexual or heterosexual.

 

[Peter Parka]

I think he may be referring to the actual person, not the fact that he is gay. Straight or gay .. you don't always like the people your relatives date .. the guy might just be a complete prick, ya know?

Maybe? I wonder why he would confuse a child?

 

[Pudding Time]

you know what .. I didn't call you dull minded, I said I know you aren't .. so quit acting like you are. You can call me a bitch for disagreeing with you or showing you that you're wrong all you want.

see...



But that's ok, I won't call you name .. like you will others. Consider yourself out in the open now. You're just a bad sport is all, not that everyone doesn't already know that.

LOL!

I didn't call you a bitch, I just asked you to quit acting like one.

:smiley24:


Got anything else negative you want to say about me?



Oh, and I'm not wrong.

 

[gLing]

Oh, and I'm not wrong.

You are because you completely ignore and dismiss data simply because you disagree with it. LoL

 

[SRC]

Maybe? I wonder why he would confuse a child?

Maybe he is one of those gay people who think all straight people are out to get him, and he might teach that paranoia .. or he could just have bad attitude period .. I can't really say for sure .. since I don't know him though.

 

[Pudding Time]

You are because you completely ignore and dismiss data simply because you disagree with it. LoL

I explained why I disagree with it, and you and SRC are the ones ignoring it because you don't want to agree with it..

LOL

 

[Pudding Time]

Maybe he is one of those gay people who think all straight people are out to get him, and he might teach that paranoia .. or he could just have bad attitude period .. I can't really say for sure .. since I don't know him though.

So? Straight people can be paraniod about things also..

 

[SRC]

I explained why I disagree with it, and you and SRC are the ones ignoring it because you don't want to agree with it..

LOL

Yea, us and the CDC and every other scientific institution .. are you now disagreeing with science and saying you are smarter than them? :24:

 

[SRC]

So? Straight people can be paraniod about things also..

jesus fucking christ .. you would argue that the sky isn't blue if you had on rose colored glasses .. wouldnt' you?