What is your attitude to gays and lesbians?

[AUFred]

What someone does with their private parts is none of my business if it is done in their home. For me I generally am fine with everyone no matter their sexual preference. I do however get put out with...

"Hi, I'm gay."
"Nice weather we are having today, I'm gay!"
"How is your family? Have I mentioned to you today I am gay?"
"I love my man's private parts. Here is a picture of us kissing."
"Here is a picture of us groping each other."
"Did I tell you I am gay?"

Where and what you do with your parts or someone else's parts does not define you. It is a part of you not all of you.

 

[Flakey]

First of all I am She but not He. Secondly Please don't write such foolish comments like "Oh i see troll here". This thread was posted in the Discuss section so if you want to discuss this theme you are welcome if not when go to another section.

 

[Flakey]

AuFred, behavior of 99% gays and lesbians which i saw in the public places were kinda

"I am gay. Yes. We love each other"
"What is the problem with it?"
"We can show off our feelings"
...in the streets, airports etc"

 

[Tim]

What someone does with their private parts is none of my business if it is done in their home. For me I generally am fine with everyone no matter their sexual preference. I do however get put out with...

"Hi, I'm gay."
"Nice weather we are having today, I'm gay!"
"How is your family? Have I mentioned to you today I am gay?"
"I love my man's private parts. Here is a picture of us kissing."
"Here is a picture of us groping each other."
"Did I tell you I am gay?"

Where and what you do with your parts or someone else's parts does not define you. It is a part of you not all of you.

So would you have a problem with me mentioning my wife in a conversation? I mean because it comes up quite frequently since she is a huge part of my life.
And every time I mention my wife, I'm telling you that I am straight.
Or would it only bother you if a guy mentioned his boyfriend/husband like the rest of us "straight" people do, because he is telling you that he is gay?

I mean how many times did someone just blurt out "I'm gay" in your presence? Or is it more the fact that they are talking about their personal life in such a way that to avoid confusion they preface it by stating their orientation? I know my fair share of homosexuals and I just can't remember the last time I heard one of them running around yelling "I'M GAY!"

Maybe it's just a fact that you are so use to hearing about us "straight" people that you don't even hear it anymore, but if anything is said regarding homosexuality, it stands out to you... maybe?

It's kind of similar to thinking about your wife during the day, it happens all the time. But the one time you think about her and she calls you at that moment, you think it's a psychic connection. You just fail to realize that it only stands out in your mind because you think of her so much that you seem to forget all the other times where you were thinking about her and the phone never rang...

Something to think about.

 

[Tim]

AuFred, behavior of 99% gays and lesbians which i saw in the public places were kinda

"I am gay. Yes. We love each other"
"What is the problem with it?"
"We can show off our feelings"
...in the streets, airports etc"

99%? Does that mean you asked everyone you saw if they were gay or not? I mean how many people do you pass every single day that are gay and you would never know it? Do you count them into your calculations?

 

[HK]

First of all I am She but not He. Secondly Please don't write such foolish comments like "Oh i see troll here". This thread was posted in the Discuss section so if you want to discuss this theme you are welcome if not when go to another section.

Funnily enough, one of the favourite past-times of trolls is bringing up subjects feel strongly about and expressing a purposefully negative view like, oh I don't know, that gays are disgusting.


If you don't want to get talked to like a troll, don't behave like one.

 

[Panacea]

I dont think it needs a degree in Psychology nor MD for someone to know the effects of homosexuality in kids

To regurgitate internet statistics that may or may not be relevant/skewed/misleading? No. Certainly anyone can do that, and they are free to. I feel experts should be left to make extremely damaging statements about groups of human beings, though, as these statements are rooted in something that would need a lot of evidence to legitimize.

I beg to differ. There are facts out there evident to show it's effects on miseducated/misinformed kids.
This info is not for all gays of course.

Then how can we go any further with this list of reasons homosexuals are dangerous to children? If the data is not all of for homosexuals, and not all homosexuals do these things, then the issue is not homosexuals, it is literally the things listed, themselves.

to name a few: Homosexuality endorses
1) multiple, very frequent change in partners some leading to unhealthy sex life/lifestyle = STDs etc
2) some crimes like sexual abuse of kids in LA stats/police reports show 30,000 are committed by homosexuals
3) Homosexuals account for a disproportionate number of hepatitis cases: 66% in New York Cit, 70--80% in San Francisco, 56% in Toronto, 42% in Montreal, and 26% in Melbourne
4) certain percentage of homosexuals participate in sadomasochism leading to accidental deaths
5) In California alone and given that this is the only state that has a hospital catering to the SVPs ( sexually violent predators)( FYI: not all the patients are from California but from all over US ) about 1/3 of the hospital population are gays who have preyed on young kids. Kids interviewed during police reports/investigations show evidence of the lack of knowledge of those kids re: homosexuality and it's effects and how the kids can easily be preyed on....

and lots more......

Are these the types of endorsements that we want our kids to learn by not minding what our kids see from homosexuals? :willy_nilly:

This list seems to be a few things:
a) fear mongering
b) silly (sadomasochism??? who gives a shit?)
c) pretty clearly biased

And I take issue with your use of the word endorse, here. Nipple clamps aren't sponsored by GLAAD.

As I said, even when morally unsavory events occur with homosexuals, they also occur with heterosexuals, so the danger to children is not the influence of homosexuality, but the influence of morally unsavory events. All of which are unavoidable in society and require parenting. They need to be distinguished.

I believe children should know that there are plenty of homosexuals who lead healthy, successful lives free of crime, and not to judge them as wicked perverts just because they are not heterosexuals. It seems they also need to know that all sorts of people make bad choices sometimes, or are predators.

 

[Flakey]

Troll is a man who post one time only, as you see i am not, i open for discussion

 

[Dana]

ok whos the lesbian because I'm totally turned on right now....

 

[Darrell]

ok whos the lesbian because I'm totally turned on right now....

I LOL'd. Nicely done.

 

[Flakey]

Tim when i see two men or women are licking in the street i can definitely say they are homosexual. Don't you agree?

 

[Dana]

Tim when i see two men or women are licking in the street i can definitely say they are homosexual. Don't you agree?

hmmm licking in the street? where do you living and when is it prime licking time?

 

[Panacea]

Tim when i see two men or women are licking in the street i can definitely say they are homosexual. Don't you agree?

Can I ask where you are when you see homosexual people licking in the street?

 

[Dana]

Can I ask where you are when you see homosexual people licking in the street?

in an alley outside a brothel ... i assume

 

[anathelia]

IMO, I don't see why it should be anyone's business what anyone else's sexual preference is. I understand that a lot of people have experiences with homosexuals who w ant to flaunt their sexuality, and yes it can be obnoxious...but I think the reason you don't see straight people doing the same thing is because it is completely commonplace to be straight, so there's no need to go about and tell people how you feel.

I do not believe sexual orientation is a choice. Whether or not you act on it is, but acting on it (or not) does not make you that orientation. I do believe that there are lots of genetics involved in sexual orientation. Men and women base their physical attraction to someone based on certain things that make someone look fertile or not. It's not strictly just "oh..I like a chiseled face" or something like that.

And before you ask me how I would feel about my daughter seeing two men or women kissing...I can tell you with 100% certainty that I find there to be absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, I think it would be a good thing. It will allow her to have an open mind, ask questions, and let me explain it to her. Obviously, I wouldn't go into an in-depth discussion with her if she was like 5 years old, but just the same...it's not like there's anything I need to hide from her. There's nothing wrong with telling her two men or women are kissing because they love each other, just like mommy and daddy.

 

[Darrell]

Tim when i see two men or women are licking in the street i can definitely say they are homosexual. Don't you agree?

You need to steer clear of those truck stop rest stops, apparently.

 

[Flakey]

There is a gay non-official place in the center of Moscow. There is a square here and a road goes closely to this place so when I am in the traffic jam i see such pics from time to time

 

[Tim]

Tim when i see two men or women are licking in the street i can definitely say they are homosexual. Don't you agree?

You said, "behavior of 99% gays and lesbians which i saw in the public places were kinda..."

what I am saying is if you saw 10 couples behaving like this in public and 100 other gay couples passed you by without you ever knowing, then only 10% of gays act this way. But since you have no idea how many gay people walk right on by, then you have NO idea what percentage of gay people act that way, do you?

 

[porterjack]

obviously a language issue

i lived in moscow once and her attitude does not surprise me, there is a lot of ignorance, homophoblia and also overt racism in the former USSR

first man in space - give you that

basic human rights - a long way behind most civilised countries

 

[Dana]

I'd like to mention i don't mind homosexuals but despise those who use their gay card to claim descrimination and cause an uproar in public. Quit being a drama queen folks. that is all. *i probably ruined my streak*