Same with masturbation. He didnt use his seed for the intended reason. Therefore he wasted the seed.
You even said it, for that intended reason... getting his sister-in-law pregnant. There's no discussion of it in any other context, so please tell me how it's a sin. Other than the one mention of "wasting" seed, with no mention of self-pleasuring.
So, when was the last time you ate a pork product? Or got a haircut or shaved your face?