their are people like that all over the world whos to say he wouldn't have turned out that way even if he hadn't been in the military, i was in the military and i've been happily married for 30 years , but if you feel better saying it was the military thats ok, but what makes other men disrespect/beat women sorry but i think some guys are just bullies/pussys that like to beat up women , note i said guys because they damn sure are not men.
they've been together since junior high school until now in their mid twenties, steadily. I suppose it is possible to suddenly change your entire personailty after many years but I dunno.
By the way, I'm not one of those anti-military people.