The statement that I bolded bothers me. Respect should never be earned by fear. The DI did not hit the recruits with tent poles for respect, I am almost 100% positive it was because they were being dumb ass recruits. Fear is not a good motivator for respect, IMHO.
I highlight it the same way, in my life. I know that (if you havent read my other posts), any type of violence, especially when used as a tool to teach, is just absurd. To me, at that time, when I was in highschool, I didnt know much about anything. The fear was given at that time, and being that I was young, I followed and learned. But then I learned better, with life experience.
Hope I wasnt coming across as an advocate for terrible teachings,lol