You being ex military I wouldn't expect anything else.I'm rather familiar with the Flag Code, so no I didn't bother with the first one. The second one was hardly impressive though.
In both those instances I'm of the opinion it's a personal choice if you want to condone it. If a person is unable to make that decision for themselves they could leave it to the courts to decide to which I believe they have. Myself personally I don't condone it. I find it disrespectful which is surprising because I'm not one of the most patriotic people walking the planet. Other than flying the actual flag or draping it over a casket, then giving it to a family member I don't believe anything beyond that should be done.If we allow people to burn the flag in protest, can we really be upset if someone autographs one?