Women who wear bikinis

[Siphorous]

But there's a difference...and that is that most of us know to keep those thoughts inside our heads where they belong. Not ALL of us mind you (obviously)....but most of us do.

Indeed. As I believe Lincoln himself said along these lines - better to be silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, as the OP did. Some thoughts are best guillotined before actions result.

 

[Peter Parka]

Moaning about women in bikinis = gayest thread ever

 

[Gillby]

:unsure: have you looked in the mirror lately? Hope you never venture out on the sand without a top on coz... that shit isn't attractive.

 

[Dana]

:unsure: have you looked in the mirror lately? Hope you never venture out on the sand without a top on coz... that shit isn't attractive.

I hardly get to a beach but I never go out without a t-shirt on and frankly I've worked hard to loose 100 lbs over the past 8 or 9 months... I know I prob deserve that response but you know what you can do don't ya?




























Besides... I've never posted a pic topless so................ you can stuff personal insults.

 

[Dana]

I just find it funny that everyone here has seen someone who they thought shouldn't be wearing "_______" fill in the blank, yet are acting all outraged. Hell, I was at the beach all day and saw several that had no business wearing what they were.
And as far as judging others and what they are wearing... us men can't even hold a candle to you women. Some of the cruelest comments I ever heard came from women.

:surrender

 

[Veronica]

You weren't even referring to overweight, as a matter of fact you specifically said "not fat".
You singled out a group of women who may have just have had a baby. Because stressing about what they're gonna look like after their pregnancy isn't enough, you had to reassure them they're being judged.
Hear that veronica? Don't fuckin wear a bikini, dana doesn't find that shit attractive

you're nit picking and putting words in my mouth.

I hear it.. Thats just fucked up.. really fucked up. Thanks for having our backs.

 

[Panacea]

Funny, that reminds me of this scene from Sex and the City...one of my faves!!! Starting at 3:35, LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3RQS-jPus0&feature=related

Haha love that episode!! Perfect!

 

[Veronica]

Ok dana, After finishing the whole thread.. I can honestly say wow. I dont judge people who wear bikini's or whatever, if thats what they feel comfortable, then thats fine. I am alittle offended by the statement about women who just had a baby.. I understand that you havent gone through that yet.. but a women creates a child inside them..and yes, it messes up their body.. But its a gift of life.. and shouldnt be judged negative that way. Personally, my ass wont be in a bikini until I lose ALL this weight AND prob get a tummy tuck, because lets face it.. when it stretches that much, it isnt gonna go down all the way.

Do you have any idea how insecure women are that just had babies? I am super SUPER insecure right now.. and its cruel to make those comments. I hope you understand that.

 

[AstriaPorta]

having a little belly almost everyone have even people that are thin ..the few that don't have just their body bounce back easy, and the others are just gym junkies

 

[Dana]

*sigh*

 

[Mystic]

i've seen some right fat arses in bikinis and wanted to scratch my eyes out, however i always think, 'wow i wish i was that brave and didn't give a shit about how i looked in one.'

 

[Skorpy]

that arent fat but look like they mighta just had a child... with that jiggy stomach and sucked in belly button... Ya that ain't attractive :ninja

I have had 3 kids...so yep my belly isn't like it used to be.

So I guess I am never to wear one again

 

[NoDak]

I have had 3 kids...so yep my belly isn't like it used to be.

So I guess I am never to wear one again

Wear whatever you want. I don't think anybody'd notice anything amiss because they'd be totally mesmerized by your eyes and your spirit.

 

[Skorpy]

Wear whatever you want. I don't think anybody'd notice anything amiss because they'd be totally mesmerized by your eyes and your spirit.

How sweet

But honestly... and I am being honest here. I don't think Dana was thinking when he made this thread. I know it has upset the women here, and I too am disappointed in such a comment, as we know how it feels to lose that baby fat. After nearly 5 years of having my youngest child, I don't think I will ever be like I once was, and so have to face that fact. And then these sorts of comments happen, and that insecure feeling comes flooding back.

You guys are so sweet with your comments here. It is lovely to read your understanding and sincere thoughts.

But all in all... After being ticked off, I think Dana now knows he made a big mistake and finding it hard to voice it.

 

[Thornless]

Besides... I've never posted a pic topless so................ you can stuff personal insults.

Yes you have.... cropped neck up, but you have

 

[Peter Parka]

 

[Panacea]

LOL! :24: what a picture

 

[BadBoy]

This thread makes me want to vomit.

 

[rback33]

Wow. Insensitive is the first word that comes to mind... most of the rest of my thoughts I will eat. Dex and others have said plenty for me..... Dana needs a reality check.

 

[NoDak]

How sweet

But honestly... and I am being honest here. I don't think Dana was thinking when he made this thread. I know it has upset the women here, and I too am disappointed in such a comment, as we know how it feels to lose that baby fat. After nearly 5 years of having my youngest child, I don't think I will ever be like I once was, and so have to face that fact. And then these sorts of comments happen, and that insecure feeling comes flooding back.

You guys are so sweet with your comments here. It is lovely to read your understanding and sincere thoughts.

But all in all... After being ticked off, I think Dana now knows he made a big mistake and finding it hard to voice it.

What's so hard about; "Jeeze! I screwed up! I'm really sorry for offending you girls here. I didn't mean for this thread to hurt feelings. I was thoughtless and I apologize."