This is hard to read with all of the misspelling and lack of punctuation, but anyhow I have a question. Why do so many feel that it's out of character to speak one's mind on a chat forum?? Why is everyone disgusted with the few comments he's made? Are you, personally, the woman he's talking about? Who gives a shit? He stated his opinion and that's generally what chat forums are based on. Granted, OTz brings out the worst in many, or so it seems. I don't understand why this is such a hot topic. The man who posted it only typed a couple of sentences, yet so many put all kinds of words and emotions into his brief post.