IntruderLS1
Active Member
Here's my take on it. And this is comming from a person who was in almost the exact situation.
Go ahead and call her, but don't let it get serious. Just call and say hey. Find out how she's been, yada yada. Then tell her it was so great to talk to her, and you're glad to hear she's doing well. If you link up, the feelings will be back instantly. I would recomend against if it was a hard break up, because she's going to leave again. (Unless she moved to that new town). But I can almost gaurantee you if you hook up for old times sake, you'll be transported back 2 years in time in a mater of days.
The past is hard to deal with when it refuses to stay in the past. In general the thing I tell people with relationship questions, is "What does your heart tell you?" And you already seem to know that it wouldn't be a good idea. It's going against your instinct in relationships (for guys at least) that leads to the drama.
Good luck to you.
FWIW, I got back together with mine, ... it was great ... Then she left again... then we were sad .... Now it's been 5 years and I still wonder how the hell she's doing. If it had ended the first time, I think it would have been easier.
Go ahead and call her, but don't let it get serious. Just call and say hey. Find out how she's been, yada yada. Then tell her it was so great to talk to her, and you're glad to hear she's doing well. If you link up, the feelings will be back instantly. I would recomend against if it was a hard break up, because she's going to leave again. (Unless she moved to that new town). But I can almost gaurantee you if you hook up for old times sake, you'll be transported back 2 years in time in a mater of days.
The past is hard to deal with when it refuses to stay in the past. In general the thing I tell people with relationship questions, is "What does your heart tell you?" And you already seem to know that it wouldn't be a good idea. It's going against your instinct in relationships (for guys at least) that leads to the drama.
Good luck to you.
FWIW, I got back together with mine, ... it was great ... Then she left again... then we were sad .... Now it's been 5 years and I still wonder how the hell she's doing. If it had ended the first time, I think it would have been easier.
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