Now now Ed, I never said always. You're putting words in my mouth again
I said that you've been known to, which would imply that you have done it before, not that you do every time.
Given that you ALWAYS react with a comment like the one before i've even typed anything, adding an "always" makes no difference whatsoever. Making comments like that is just a way to get the first blow in and you know it.
And it's "spin" only in your eyes, because you normally disagree with me. I have never leveled any empty categorisations, and lets face it, that's a VERY empty categorisation, at your posts like that. Would be nice to be given the same courtesy.
I don't disagree that there is such a thing as environmental conditioning, but at the same time you have to consider the scope of said conditioning. I'd say that I've been conditioned that taking a shower every day is a good and hygienic thing to do. The same goes with brushing my teeth, wearing matching clothes when I go out, exercising proper manners when I am out in public, and the list can go on and on. Those are learned behaviors based on environmental conditioning. I've been taught these things based on what my parents have told me, what I've read in books, and what I've seen on television.
agreed.
Compare and contrast that with violent video games and movies. There are people that are predisposed toward mental instabilities, and these violent movies, television shows, or games can show them how they could act out on their feelings based on the instabilities they suffer from. However, we are all responsible for our own actions, mental instabilities or not. You can't blame violent behavior by people on violence in our popular culture, we are all responsible for our own actions. Sure, the violence can effect certain people negatively, but those people could just as easily be effected similarly by reading a violent novel, seeing a nasty argument between two people out on the street, or something of a similar nature.
agreed.
Violence in movies or other popular culture cannot be blamed for violence acted out by people. We all have choices, those choices might be more difficult for some people to make, but they're there just the same.
Of course the choices are there. But not everything done in life is a conscious choice. In reality, how many conscious choices do you think you make in a day? Have you ever counted? It would be an interesting thing to do because I would put money that it's a lot less than we'd think it is.
And that's where environmental conditioning comes into play. This is a process that bypasses rational thought, free will if you like, and reacts for us.
A good example is how people deal with disagreements.
I used to live in this place called Portsmouth, in the south of England. A dump, with over 30% unemployment, and filled with some of the nastiest pieces of work you're ever likely to see.
I saw many, many reasons why the violent nature of Portsmouth was the way it was. This wasn't down to genetics or free will, the people there simply didn't have to tools to deal with certain situations in any other way but with violence.
Anyway, whilst living there I saw things like parents verbally assaulting shop staff over incredibly minor disagreements, right in front of their kids. These kids learn how to deal with things by watching their folks. And what they were learning was an aggressive reaction to every conceivable disagreement.
This is why in anger management classes they're told to stop and think, because normally thats something that none of us do. Conscious thought isn't something that's switched on all the time. Most of the time we're no different from animals, playing out set procedures with our given personality frameworks. The victim of a violent attack, for example, isn't making conscious choices any more than the attacker.
So, if we're all reacting to just our conditioning, rather than our conscious thoughts, some of the responsibility must be placed at the hands of those that did the conditioning, be it parents, teachers, friends, or the other million influences that can affect a child's development?
By the way, I don't in any way think that this excuses any kind of bad or violent behaviour, I just think it's helpful to understand that everything has a cause, therefore everything has a solution.