Of course it is my responsiblity, but that is the source of my respect for those who serve in the armed forces. I cannot take up arms and serve to protect our country. I do not confuse the meaning behind any war in which they fight with whether I owe them respect or not either. That is the nature of the military, they do not start wars, that lies with politicians. Servicemen and women do what they are told and are living up to their agreement with the service under which they signed up. Though it may question the mission themselves, and some have, they still do their job and I respect that they enlist knowing their lives could very possibly be on the line.
I respect that.
but i'm not arguing against that point of view....nor the OP's
they're both the result of freedom
the question is: can you respect the one you disagree with?
would you fight to defend it?