Second Hand Smoke & Kids

Smoking around a child is bad, I can decide if I want to stay in an area where there is smoking going on .. a child can't, but so is smoking away from the child then coming right inside and picking them up and holding them on your nicotine laden clothing.

It might not harm them right away .. but if your child always had a runy nose, or is always coughing .. or various other allergey type symptoms .. you can almost guarantee your smokey clothing is the culprit.

My son is allergic to cigarette smoke and his nana smokes around him .. when he was a baby and he went to her house (not by my choice but court ordered visiation) he'd come home smelling like an ashtray. His clothes reaked, his hair reaked, I got to where I had to throw the clothes out on the deck because it made his laundry basket reak .. AND the rest of his clothes that were in it.

I feel the same way about parents drinking while with their children. We were at a restaurant the other day and there was a couple and their 2 small (between 3-7 yrs) children with them .. BOTH parents were drinking. I saw them go through 2 pitchers of beer. Fucking disgusting .. that they would do it AND that the restaurant is ALLOWED to serve them!

I was >< close to saying something .. but my mother was begging me not too.
 
Smoking around a child is bad, I can decide if I want to stay in an area where there is smoking going on .. a child can't, but so is smoking away from the child then coming right inside and picking them up and holding them on your nicotine laden clothing.

It might not harm them right away .. but if your child always had a runy nose, or is always coughing .. or various other allergey type symptoms .. you can almost guarantee your smokey clothing is the culprit.

My son is allergic to cigarette smoke and his nana smokes around him .. when he was a baby and he went to her house (not by my choice but court ordered visiation) he'd come home smelling like an ashtray. His clothes reaked, his hair reaked, I got to where I had to throw the clothes out on the deck because it made his laundry basket reak .. AND the rest of his clothes that were in it.

I feel the same way about parents drinking while with their children. We were at a restaurant the other day and there was a couple and their 2 small (between 3-7 yrs) children with them .. BOTH parents were drinking. I saw them go through 2 pitchers of beer. Fucking disgusting .. that they would do it AND that the restaurant is ALLOWED to serve them!

I was >< close to saying something .. but my mother was begging me not too.

How big is a pitcher?
 
How big is a pitcher?


how big is a pitcher? Um .. you know .. those plastic things of beer that usually a group get .. comes with 4 cups

Pitcher.jpg
 
In this country we drink like men so I don;t really understand :24:

But what's that, about 4 pints? If that.

2 pints each parent seems alright to me
um .. you shouldn't drink and drive yourself around .. much less with kids in your car!

You wanna do it .. be my guest .. but kids dont' have the option to decline a ride (nor do they realize that they should)

2 beers will get you put in jail here if you get pulled over after drinking them.
 
I feel the same way about parents drinking while with their children. We were at a restaurant the other day and there was a couple and their 2 small (between 3-7 yrs) children with them .. BOTH parents were drinking. I saw them go through 2 pitchers of beer. Fucking disgusting .. that they would do it AND that the restaurant is ALLOWED to serve them!

I was >< close to saying something .. but my mother was begging me not too.

So you never have an alcoholic drink around your kids?
 
I think her point is drinking to excess. Again--as Gracie said, kids emulate--they do what they see, not what they are told. Obviously, virtually ever kid is going to drink alcohol at some point when they get older--try it anyway--most will continue some will not. You don't want your child to see you drinking an entire pitcher of beer anywhere actually.
so true
 
So you never have an alcoholic drink around your kids?
Absolutely not .. my child doesn't even know I drink. He's 11 .. He learns by example .. and I would like for him to remain as innocent and unbias as possible.

When I feel the appropriate age comes, that I believe that he can and will understand the act and meaning of drinking .. I will disclose my actions to him .. but until then I will not do something in front of him that I don't want him doing until he is of a certain age (not saying 21 .. but I'd prefer him not be 13 and drinking).

I also don't curse in front of my child either.
 
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