Men and their deteriorating moral and family values.

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Yes I can and to tell a 16 year old to screw other children is immoral.

Would you like to see him or his girlfriend have to take on the responsibility of parenthood or run away from them?

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DL

excuse me....where in my post did it say that i was telling my 16 year old to screw other children??? as i have stated before, i can preach until i am blue in the face, show him right from wrong, and pray that he makes the right decisions.

as for if he did get someone pregnant....he would man up and take responsibility! dont know where you got the idea that i would teach my children to run from issues.
 
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Have you noticed that poorer you are, the more likely it is that you will get in trouble with the law?

IOW, poor people are basically forced to do more evil and be less moral in our eyes.
Having been poor, I would say that the stereotype you perpetuate here results in closer scrutiny over what the poor do, and thus more arrests occur in poor areas. Even a docile animal will fight back when it feels threatened. More than poverty being the culprit, I would say congestion is more responsible. The poor in small towns and rural areas are far more "moral" (to use your word) than the inner-city poor.

The richer you are, the less likely are the chances that you will need to break a law and show immorality.
The richer you are, the more likely you will get away with immoral behavior, get warnings rather than arrests, and avoid conviction in criminal court.

Check the number of unwed mothers who got pregnant just to get on the dole and get away from an even poorer life at home.
Name one woman who got pregnant with the express purpose of moving out of her parents' home to live on her own on the dole. This is another stereotype.

If we want immorality to drop in our countries, we will have to invest in the poor and middle classes.
Handing a thief money does not make him suddenly turn moral. Poor people who hit the lottery generally lose/spend their winnings quickly. I would suggest that before making plans to fix a perceived problem, you should first discard your stereotypes and do some research to discover what the real picture looks like.
 

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Would you agree that the majority in the world follow the Abrahamic God?
Christians, Catholics, Muslims and Eastern orthodoxy are what, 80% of the population of the world?

Would you also agree that in those religions, the male is pronounced to be the head of women?
If not, read Genesis 3.

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DL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqN8EYIIR3g&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dspWh9g3hU&feature=related


I agree that those institutions BELIEVE that they have the authority to make that pronouncement.

I wholeheartedly REJECT the idea that they, in fact, DO have any such authority.

Let me give you an example that is, in my opinion, of pretty much equal importance to that of the organized religions who make such claims.

When South Park's Eric Cartman shouts at his young friends "Respect My Authoriti!!" None of them actually respect it.

That's pretty much the same as it works with religion. (Except perhaps in some Muslim cultures where the women are beaten, tortured or killed to force them to be subordinate to the men)
 
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excuse me....where in my post did it say that i was telling my 16 year old to screw other children???

"that being said...i tell him to make smart choices....realize that whoever he sticks it in....who else has she had stick it in.....cover it up,"

Not exactly a message of 0 tolerance.
I admit to have been a bit jumpy with you. My apologies.
I look at things from both sides and if it was my daughter your son was dating, I would have stated the case in a stronger way.

as i have stated before, i can preach until i am blue in the face, show him right from wrong, and pray that he makes the right decisions.
as for if he did get someone pregnant....he would man up and take responsibility! dont know where you got the idea that i would teach my children to run from issues.

Just looking at the stats. I see more deadbeat dads than those who step up.
When they do step up, their live go south. It is a lose lose situation FMPOV.

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Having been poor, I would say that the stereotype you perpetuate here results in closer scrutiny over what the poor do, and thus more arrests occur in poor areas. Even a docile animal will fight back when it feels threatened. More than poverty being the culprit, I would say congestion is more responsible. The poor in small towns and rural areas are far more "moral" (to use your word) than the inner-city poor.

The richer you are, the more likely you will get away with immoral behavior, get warnings rather than arrests, and avoid conviction in criminal court.

Name one woman who got pregnant with the express purpose of moving out of her parents' home to live on her own on the dole. This is another stereotype.

Handing a thief money does not make him suddenly turn moral. Poor people who hit the lottery generally lose/spend their winnings quickly. I would suggest that before making plans to fix a perceived problem, you should first discard your stereotypes and do some research to discover what the real picture looks like.

Christ. You are more full of stereotypes than I am.
I come from what I speak of.

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DL
 

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Better for free men to abuse themselves than to have others add to that abuse with laws of prohibition.

What is the best model for children?

Seeing law used to punish those who want to be responsible for their own bodies, good or bad in the eyes of others,
or
seeing law used to allow people to be autonomous and have control of their bodies and lives?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDt8NXLs1ws&feature=player_embedded

https://mises.org/media/3510/4-The-Drug-Pusher

https://mises.org/media/3511/5-The-Drug-Addict

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DL

Again, you need to correct the formatting of the post I'm quoting.

From your post as originally viewed:

Me:
You have also started a thread on legalizing something you call 'forgiving' drugs.....
Surely you see a connection between allowing the rampant abuse of such drugs and the deterioration of morality and family values?

Your response:

That appears either your failure of observation or denial of reality.

Continued response:
If all moral values are projected in the laws of the nation, then having stupid laws is counter to moral actions.
That's an 'if' statement irrelevant to my comment and position. You need to deal with reality and respond.
I don't argue for the present criminalization laws.
Your argument, however, is one of advancing a culture of drug abuse in the obvious face of it's negative impact.
So far, your argument is one of denial.


Continued response:
Legalizing drugs that kill us and making illegal drugs that do not is insane.
Arguing for a culture of drug abuse is also insane.


What is the best moral lesson for us to give our children?
For them to use laws for the greatest gain to society or to use laws for the least?
The best is to write laws wisely.
So far, your argument is one of teaching children that there is no downside in conducting a lifetime spent in a culture of drug abuse and essentially that the selfish quest for instant gratification over rides rational thought......ie...critical thinking.


Me:
How the hell can you rationalize widespread abuse of drugs with setting a good example to children?
Seems a gigantic contradiction.


( format issues )

You:
Better for free men to abuse themselves than to have others add to that abuse with laws of prohibition.

What is the best model for children?

This line of reasoning is under the heading of 'fallacy'.
False/defective logic
What you are presenting is called a false dilemma, or commonly ....either/or fallacy.
You are limiting the choice to fit your bias.
Your bias being to argue for legalization of a culture of drug abuse, not the welfare of children that are lacking of capacity to make adult judgement.

The best model for children is truth and a model to present is that restraint can have rewards in this situation, not your position of underwritting a mental and physical negative.

That's the third choice you neglected to present.

you posted:
Seeing law used to punish those who want to be responsible for their own bodies, good or bad in the eyes of others,
You are merely denying the gravity of what acceptance of a culture of drug abuse entails and ignoring that my position focuses on restraint of abuse rather than punishment as a means of control.
Your position is one of arguing in a manner that condones drug abuse.
Here it is------> "Better for free men to abuse themselves "

And there's another fallacy.
It's a fallacy of comparison. Incorrect comparison.
It's better that men not be abused by any means, free or not.


Seeing law used to punish those who want to be responsible for their own bodies, good or bad in the eyes of others,
Another fallacy.
Children are not considered responsible but are definitely impressionable.
The concept of 'good or bad' is being made in their subconscious and you are arguing that drug abuse is a positive concept that imparts freedom, when the reverse is actually the situation.
It's an issue of chemical slavery.
Your argument is one of relative influence on children. Meaning lesser dependence is preferable to greater dependence, rather than a model that presents independence as a virtue.

................. allow people to be autonomous and have control of their bodies and lives?
What a crock :D
That's generally not a trait of chemically induced entertainment by drugs seen as dangerous to mental health and society .

Talk about distortion of reality :cool


BTW.....drug use and abuse in Portugal has not been legalized, it's been decriminalized . I've posted this in your other thread with a responsible source.
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1893946,00.html
The sale of drugs is still illegal.

I favor decriminalization of use/abuse.
But definitely not legalization........that sends the message of drug abuse being acceptable conduct. That merely intensifies social problems associated with drug abuse. It's not a solution.

As far as your quoting libertarian sources....I've been noticing the concept 'libertarianism' means, to libertarians, not concepts of individual freedom so much , more the concept of what the individual is free to get away with in imposing himself/herself upon others.

Ludvig's motto is: "do not give in to evil but proceed ever more boldly against it."

Seems rather contradictory to an argument of acceptance and support of a culture of drug abuse.
 

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You are guided by fear and that is not a good position to be starting from.

You view legalization as opening a door for abuse of drugs. I note that you use abuse most of the time and not use. Note your mind set.

Truth is, if anyone wants to abuse drugs at present, supply is not a problem. That is will continue under legalization.

No one is out there waiting for legalization to start abusing something so your whole thinking begins with hysterical and unfounded fear.

We presently cannot prevent access for our children due to the black market.
Legalization under medical control will end much of that. Itis the only thing that we can do to help ourselves protect our children. Without it we are screwed.

You would likely see all drugs legalized and put under thesame control as we would have to to stay ahead of the criminal element and do our duty to ouyr children.

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DL
 

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You are guided by fear and that is not a good position to be starting from.

You view legalization as opening a door for abuse of drugs. I note that you use abuse most of the time and not use. Note your mind set.

Truth is, if anyone wants to abuse drugs at present, supply is not a problem. That is will continue under legalization.

No one is out there waiting for legalization to start abusing something so your whole thinking begins with hysterical and unfounded fear.

We presently cannot prevent access for our children due to the black market.
Legalization under medical control will end much of that. Itis the only thing that we can do to help ourselves protect our children. Without it we are screwed.

You would likely see all drugs legalized and put under thesame control as we would have to to stay ahead of the criminal element and do our duty to ouyr children.

Regards
DL


Your post is a desperate attempt to divert the thread from your intentions.
 

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............

You view legalization as opening a door for abuse of drugs. I note that you use abuse most of the time and not use. Note your mind set.

Truth is, if anyone wants to abuse drugs at present, supply is not a problem. That is will continue under legalization.

No one is out there waiting for legalization to start abusing something so your whole thinking begins with hysterical and unfounded fear.

We presently cannot prevent access for our children due to the black market.
Legalization under medical control will end much of that. Itis the only thing that we can do to help ourselves protect our children. Without it we are screwed.

You would likely see all drugs legalized and put under thesame control as we would have to to stay ahead of the criminal element and do our duty to ouyr children.

Regards
DL


You view legalization as opening a door for abuse of drugs. I note that you use abuse most of the time and not use. Note your mind set.
Note that I have distinctly expressed my opinion on medicinal use by prescription in your pot thread and my comments in this thread are directed at the context of your argument.....the legalization of pot as a supplement to the use of more dangerous hard drugs intended for recreation.

You have posted in your pot thread an argument for recreational prescriptions. :D


Truth is, if anyone wants to abuse drugs at present, supply is not a problem. That is will continue under legalization.
No Shit Captain Obvious :D

The issue is you are arguing for the acceptance of a culture of drug abuse.
ABUSE!

We presently cannot prevent access for our children due to the black market.
Acceptance/rejection of a culture of drug abuse is not logically based upon availability.
It's based upon effect.

No one is out there waiting for legalization to start abusing something so your whole thinking begins with hysterical and unfounded fear.
Your argument of acceptance of a drug culture is exactly the rationale for concern.
The issue is.....effect upon society and your argument is one denying the democratic principle of a society deciding is own fate on the demands of the individual rather than a consensus......highly un-democratic and selfish.


You would likely see all drugs legalized and put under thesame control as we would have to to stay ahead of the criminal element and do our duty to ouyr children.
That made no sense.
Please consider restating it.
 
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