how easy is it to get laid?

[groundpounder]

I was thinking there is no room for discussion on this. I may be wrong - I'm willing to learn.

SO, onto the debate...

Your 'average woman' could go to any establishment in Anytown, USA and get some dick if she wanted it - just look halfway decent, smell halfway decent and act halfway decent and she would get some from somebody. I'm not saying this is right, wrong, moral/immoral/ammoral, indifferent, good idea/bad idea - I'm just saying....
Now, if she looks good, smells good and acts right, (like most women can/do/are) then her options are WIDE ass open, and she wouldn't even have to work for it. Just show up and be pretty. Right, boys?

The 'average guy,' on the other hand, could not. He could look good, smell great, act wonderful and STILL end up with the Four Sisters on Thumb Street. Only the hottest of hot have it easy. And even then, they can fuck it up royally if they act like an ass. Right, ladies?

Boys and girls are wired for sex differently. These are the rules. We all play by them.
It boils down to this:
The 'average woman' could be a nine alarm bitch to a guy, but just as he's about to say "Fuck this" she could say, "I'd REALLY like to go to bed with you. I think you're fucking hot," he'd do it.

If even a hot guy acts like a prick, if he says, "You're hot, why don't you come over to my place for some sex," most women are going to tell him to get bent and find someone else. And make him 'average,' he's got NO shot at the poon.

:humm:I hate being right all the time. :dunno

 

[AUDRAA]

Ive heard this bullshit so many times from men and its just not true. I go to the bar with my friends and there are some nights yes where I could go home with alot of guys, but there are also alot of nights where I dont get hit on at all so Im calling bullshit on this.

 

[sundvlfn88]

I think a girl is the best one to have the answer for this as Pony already said. I think she answered it well.

 

[groundpounder]

I'm calling bullshit on your bullshit.

What I'm saying is, if YOU wanted to get laid you could. If ANY woman went out with the intent of getting laid, she's going to find a way to get laid. I'm not talking about going to the bar and waiting for a guy to come around (like most women do, but we won't get into that right now)...

Men ALWAYS have the intent of getting laid when they go out, but more often than not they don't.

Question: when's the last time you hit on a guy big time and got turned down? Better yet, when's the last time you hit on a guy at all and got the cold shoulder?

 

[AUDRAA]

I so dont hit on guys....

 

[groundpounder]

I go to the bar with my friends and there are some nights yes where I could go home with alot of guys...

Perfect example - did you?

 

[AUDRAA]

no I dont

 

[groundpounder]

That's my point. You didn't because you didn't want to.

If a guy goes home alone, it dang sure isn't because he wanted to. It's because he struck out.

And all due repsect, your last two posts prove my point...

 

[AUDRAA]

Jason heres another thing if youre a bit choosy in who you want to sleep with that is a huge difference

 

[groundpounder]

Again, proving my point. Women are choosy, men are grateful for the opportunity...

 

[AUDRAA]

Im not just going to walk up to a random guy in a bar and be like hey baby wanna screw? Hes got to have some moral character about him at least and not be trying to get in my pants from the minute he sees me and that from my opinion is all you see in the bar lately. So no I guess I cant just walk into a bar and find a guy if thats the case. If I walk into a gas station and say who wants to do me Id be laughed out of the place. I think you guys overestimate things just a bit, you say that but honestly I know that you wouldnt want an easy girl like that think about it a little......

 

[groundpounder]

I'm not saying the outright ease of getting laid. I'm talking about the relative ease of a woman to get laid to that of a man.

Here's the thing - if you did this

Im not just going to walk up to a random guy in a bar and be like hey baby wanna screw?

more often than not, you'll get a "SURE!!" and the guy will be thinking "This is my lucky day!!"

More often than not, if a guy does the same, he gets slapped.

 

[AUDRAA]

bullshit Jason!!!
ok Im done here Ill wait for another womens perspective on this

 

[Keight]

The difference between men and women picking up i think is men are a lot more subtle about the way they go about things..... charm definatley works more for a man than it does a woman however its easier for women to get laid i think if they are more direct... tell me what man isnt going to see a woman and think hey shes nice and when the words "lets go screw" come out of her mouth it isnt an instant turn on?

 

[UncleBacon]

I agree with GP...the facts are the facts

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

groundpounder, i think the flaw in your logic lies in the use of absolute terms...saying women can ALWAYS get laid if they tried, and that men ALWAYS go out with the intention of getting laid...there are exceptions to every rule here, and you can't say that an average looking woman can go to a highbrow snooty club with lots of sexy people and definitely get laid by someone there...

 

[Suzie]

I think its cuz SOME girls have more morals then men... therefore we dont go out looking to get laid. And yeah, once again, MOST women are wired differently... thats just how it works. I didnt make the rules tho.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

I was thinking there is no room for discussion on this. I may be wrong - I'm willing to learn.

SO, onto the debate...

Your 'average woman' could go to any establishment in Anytown, USA and get some dick if she wanted it - just look halfway decent, smell halfway decent and act halfway decent and she would get some from somebody. I'm not saying this is right, wrong, moral/immoral/ammoral, indifferent, good idea/bad idea - I'm just saying....
Now, if she looks good, smells good and acts right, (like most women can/do/are) then her options are WIDE ass open, and she wouldn't even have to work for it. Just show up and be pretty. Right, boys?

The 'average guy,' on the other hand, could not. He could look good, smell great, act wonderful and STILL end up with the Four Sisters on Thumb Street. Only the hottest of hot have it easy. And even then, they can fuck it up royally if they act like an ass. Right, ladies?

Boys and girls are wired for sex differently. These are the rules. We all play by them.
It boils down to this:
The 'average woman' could be a nine alarm bitch to a guy, but just as he's about to say "Fuck this" she could say, "I'd REALLY like to go to bed with you. I think you're fucking hot," he'd do it.

If even a hot guy acts like a prick, if he says, "You're hot, why don't you come over to my place for some sex," most women are going to tell him to get bent and find someone else. And make him 'average,' he's got NO shot at the poon.

:humm:I hate being right all the time. :dunno

I hate agreeing with you being right all the time. But the man here has a point.

 

[groundpounder]

groundpounder, i think the flaw in your logic lies in the use of absolute terms...saying women can ALWAYS get laid if they tried, and that men ALWAYS go out with the intention of getting laid...there are exceptions to every rule here, and you can't say that an average looking woman can go to a highbrow snooty club with lots of sexy people and definitely get laid by someone there...

There are ALWAYS going to be exceptions to the rule. Absolutes do nothing but paint oneself into a corner.

I fail to see the flaw in my logic since I used terms like, and I'll work my way backwards here, "relative ease" as opposed to "outright ease" (post #12), "more often than not" (same post - 12). I did say ALWAYS (all caps, too) in post #4. Not too big of a deal? And used the word "average" several times in post #1.

So my logic is the logic of averages, which I feel anecdotally shows that women, on average, have an easier time getting laid than men, all things equal.

I'm still having a hard time with why this is debatable. I haven't seen anything concrete to the contrary. A lot of points, but no counterpoints.

 

[groundpounder]

I hate agreeing with you being right all the time. But the man here has a point.

WTF?!?! I mean, :wtf_anim:

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