My freinds I post with on another forum said it best:
I'm not an American and I know plenty of non-white, non first world people that agree with me.
Nationalities are something to be proud of? Don't be ridicilous, and race isn't either seeing as genetically differences between races are actually a lot of the times smaller than some differences you'll find inside races.
A "race" is an artificial construct in the first place.
I wonder, what does my girlfriend have to be proud of then?
Her Chinese ethnicity?
Her Black ethnicity?
Her Indian ethnicity?
Her European ethnicity?
Her Mestizo? Mulato? Her nationality maybe? Ah, but that is also a whim of history, she might very well have been Colombian if it hadn't been for the USA.
Everybody is just human, and nobody 'needs' an ethnicity. I have more in common with my Brazilian buddy, than I do with my white, ethnic country men.
****, I'll get confused within my own country.
Do I have a right to be proud of the achievements of my frenchspeaking countrymen?
Maybe of William of Orange? I mean, he was the duke of the Dutchy I live in, even though he lost it to Alva and Farnese ... and some Dutch people I know are very proud of him, he's the Father of the Fatherland ... then again he was a German prince.
Then again, my King is decended from Germans ... should I be proud of his achievements? Should I be proud of the King in the first place? Loyal maybe?
What about my hometown?
Then again, if I move? What if I lived there until I was 3 and then moved?
This is really confusing me ...
I might have Spanish blood as well, can I be proud of Spain then?
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It's quite stupid to be proud of a community when you contributed nothing to their achievements. I would never say I'm proud of the Polish people, because I've never even been to Poland.
It's a little different when it's a closely knit community and you actively partake in its cultural life.
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It is foolish to be proud of these things because the only people who are proud of these things are fools. People will find comfort in these things who really have nothing else going for them. Like someone may say, hey, I may be poor and uneducated, but at least I am a white American.
Thats not to say that it is always foolish. It just shouldn't be unconditional. Sure American has been o.k. to me. I can say what I want without losing my hand, I guess. But should I be proud of that? Aren't those just natural rights that we should have at birth, the right to basically be left alone? I think so, so there is no reason to be proud of that. All I know is that I can barely afford to go to college, I am basically hated by the rest of the world for no reason, 1 in 8 of my comrades don't have health care...are these things to be proud of?
It is silly to have respect and unconditional love for your parents and family. If your parents wake you up everyday with a punch to the back of the head, I certainly don't think that merits unconditional love. And the same goes for pride in your country.
I agree with them and thats how I feel as well^^^^^