In self-disclosure, when a woman has a miscarriage, I feel sorry for her and her family for the loss. I do not generally, think much about the unborn. I don't think about the life it missed, nor have many sympathies whatsoever. I am apathetic. I don't see this issue the way many see this issue. It's not a scientific thing, it's not anything but pure apathy.
Surely it makes logical sense people would be so hateful about abortion. People get really worked up about protecting life in general, which is also not something I quite understand. I tend to care more about preventing suffering once in life, not about saving life at all costs. For instance I support euthanasia, and when I mourn a suicide, I mourn their pain in life, not their death.
I do not feel this way, however, when damage is being done in the pregnancy (drug use, etc), despite plans to carry on with the birth. I don't think it's very wise or fair to set up the unborn for a future life of disease when it could be easily avoided. Still, my concern is for the being once it's born, not before. That's just me.
Despite feeling strongly against violence and abuse, I make a clear moral exception for abortion. I simply cannot allow myself to care that these feelings and morals contradict. My feelings are muddy, but overall I feel this is a not a decision for society, but individuals within. Society will not raise this child, society will not make things ok, they simply sit back in judgment.
I think the most important piece of this issue is not abortion or forced motherhood, but prevention of unwanted pregnancies. Education, resources, support, etc. Even if they don't work. If one abortion is kept from happening, it's worth it to me.
I also think it's foolish to believe stupidity or ignorance will ever cease to exist on the planet. Laws don't reduce stupidity, in my opinion, they just make stupid people sneaky. Hence dumb criminal tv shows. Make abortion illegal, make it punishable by death, couples will still choose to have unprotected sex and have abortions if they feel it's all they can do. Someone will perform an abortion, even if it's illegal. Someone will have an abortion, even if it's illegal. It will never be gone, and people will still grit their teeth and curse.
Really, opinions don't matter in this issue. They truly don't.
I hope it stays legal, and I hope fewer and fewer abortions are done every year. That's the only thing I really think about the matter.