I stick with my cremation answer. you heard of that cemetary in LA? Yeh fuck that. I was pretty much brought up with my beliefs. My mom used to visit her mothers grave in the 80s but when we moved we stopped. She said why should I visit her grave shes not there anymore. I believe my parents want to be cremated too. I want to be spread over the ocean and say I official travelled the world. Since I can't afford to in this life time. Maybe the next?