Im about to hurt the neighbor boy!

[KLD1019]

Ok yall, seriously, this kid is SOMETHING ELSE!! Ive tried to be nice, and its gotten to the point where im cussing at him! what he's been doing, i expect from an ill mannered/still learning toddler to maybe 5 yr old, NOT a 7 yr old!

1st strike......
he walks over to play with my son. ok, thats fine. my son comes in later and asks if they could have some of his Sunny D. i tell him no, because his Sunny D is for dinner time. if he's thirsty he can drink water and the boy can go home and get a drink. he gets a drink of water, puts it in the fridge and goes back outside. about a minute later, in walks the little boy and he says "why cant i have a drink?" (oh hell no!) i say "cause those drinks are for MY son for dinner time" he says "but im really really really thirsty" (im very annoyed at this point) i say "well then you can go home and get something to drink" he says "but why cant i have one of his!?" (OMG SERIOUSLY!?) i dropped what i was doing and said in a very stern voice "LOOK! you just need to go outside and go home! NOW!"

2nd strike......
doorbell rings about 10 this morning and its him. i say "he cant come outside to play because he is about to eat breakfast, brush his teeth, get dressed and will be leaving" and i go to close the door. the little shit puts his foot in the way and pushes the door back open and says "but why!?" i said "he's about to leave he cant come play!" he said "can he play later?" i said "no, he's LEAVING and wont be back today" he said with a very 'i need to know' attitude "well, where's he going?" i said "look, he's leaving so you need to go home" and closed the door pushing him back outside

3rd strike.......
im sitting here, eating, playing on the computer and enjoying my alone time. doorbell rings and before i could get out of the chair, THE DOOR OPENS AND IN WALKS THE LITTLE HEATHEN!! i said "LOOK, I TOLD YOU EARLIER MY SON WAS LEAVING AND WASNT GOING TO BE BACK! SO GO HOME!" and i push him outside and close the door....TRY to close the door. he PUSHED IT OPEN and said "but where'd he go!?" i said "he's staying with my family for a few days to spend time with them! no GO HOME!" and he says "but you're his family" i said "YEAH NO SHIT!! NOW GET YOUR ASS HOME AND DONT COME BACK!!" and slammed the door and locked it!!


im seriously not making this shit up!! i mean, WTF!?!? i DARE that boy to test me one more time!! that last time with him just walking on in my house like he owned the place just really gave me the red ass!!

and he lives with his great grandmaw. thats sad enough, but it doesnt give him the right to do what he's doing! and im not one to confront an elderly person, but i'll sure as hell will put a rude ass little shit in their place!!

 

[dkwrtw]

I'd want to smack the taste out of that kid's mouth too.

 

[Darrell]

Jesus Christ. Is this real life?

 

[Darrell]

I have an idea....

If he comes back, answer the door naked. Little boys think girls are yucky, and a naked Mom has to be way worse!!

 

[HK]

Go and tell his great grandmother that he walked into your house without knocking, and that he has tried to stop you closing your door several times. You don't have to be rude to her, but maybe if she knows what a little bastard he's being then she might try and do something about it

 

[AUFred]

When we moved in our house here. We were not completely moved in when a littlebboy about11 or 12 from up the road just walked in our house and started looking around. I was like "what do you think you are doing?" He said he always just walked in when the other people lived here. I told him he is to knock and wait for the door to be answered and wait to be invited in. Sounds like this child is not accustomed to anyone setting boundaries for him. I know it is not your job to raise him but I would be very stern in my responses to him until he got the message.

 

[StripedCat]

To be honest, I don't see the problem. oO
To me this kid seems to a bit...lonely? Poor kid.

 

[Xeno]

On one hand I feel sorry for the kid too.

On the other hand it is a bit strange for a kid to be so determined to push an adult to their limits.

(...I would've gave him something to drink though...)

(...perhaps he's just one lonely, thirsty, and determined kid...)



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[HK]

He doesn't sound lonely to me, he sounds badly raised :dunno you can be lonely and still understand basic manners like knocking before you enter someone else's house, and talking back to adults is another example of plain rudeness.

He sounds like the kind of kid where if you gave him an inch, he would take a mile.

 

[AnitaBeer]

Talk to his grandma.

 

[Darrell]

I still like my idea best.

Sound advice / comments all around though, except Xeno.

 

[Xeno]

Yeah, but it was a drink.

I know people are different all around the world, but a drink? I dunno.

(...anyways; hopefully the kid got the message overall...)

...the world has changed so much I guess...​

 

[Darrell]

It's not about the drink itself, Xeno. I think it's more about the kid and his constant persistence, even after being told no by an adult.

 

[Xeno]

It's not about the drink itself, Xeno. I think it's more about the kid and his constant persistence, even after being told no by an adult.

True.

(...I suppose I'm a little bias on this one though...)​

 

[Guyzerr]

The kid is 7 years old and you are treating him like an adult. Would you like your son to be treated like that? I doubt it. Try talking to him without anger in your voice and you might get somewhere. Maybe not the first time but he'll come around.

One other thing... if the kid asks for a drink give him a glass of water for shit sake.

 

[cam elle toe]

The kid is 7 years old and you are treating him like an adult. Would you like your son to be treated like that? I doubt it. Try talking to him without anger in your voice and you might get somewhere. Maybe not the first time but he'll come around.

One other thing... if the kid asks for a drink give him a glass of water for shit sake.

I was hoping someone else would say it first.

maybe he meant "why couldnt I have a drink OF WATER too" you gave your son one, but couldnt provide his playmate with one? :dunno

 

[Darrell]

I thought she did give him a glass of water, and he put it in her fridge. I need to learn to read.

I would give just about anyone a glass of water if they came to my door, and asked.

YMMV.

 

[HottyToddyChick]

I understand with strike 2 and 3, although I can see with him being a little kid that he might not know any better or might not have been taught any better. But I have to agree with other posters about giving the kid a cup of tap water. What have past interactions with him been like?

 

[KLD1019]

The kid is 7 years old and you are treating him like an adult. Would you like your son to be treated like that? I doubt it. Try talking to him without anger in your voice and you might get somewhere. Maybe not the first time but he'll come around.

One other thing... if the kid asks for a drink give him a glass of water for shit sake.

MY son is *5* and KNOWS better than to act like this 7 yr old rude little shit! i'll be damned if my son thought he could get away with doing what this boy is doing!

and i did talk without anger in my voice first. it obviously didnt work

I was hoping someone else would say it first.

maybe he meant "why couldnt I have a drink OF WATER too" you gave your son one, but couldnt provide his playmate with one? :dunno

they wanted specifically Sunny D. thats not a just because drink. thats my sons dinner drink and he knows it, but asked anyway. i told him no and said he could have water. he stayed inside and drank it inside and put it back in the fridge and went back outside. he didnt tell the little heathen he got a drink, i heard him say "my mom said no" and thats when he took it upon himself to walk into MY house UNINVITED and question my authority!

every 7 yr old i know knows better than to do/act like this

 

[KLD1019]

I understand with strike 2 and 3, although I can see with him being a little kid that he might not know any better or might not have been taught any better. But I have to agree with other posters about giving the kid a cup of tap water. What have past interactions with him been like?

this is the VERY first time meeting/seeing this kid and my son playing with him.