Why...

[Francis]

do everytime I get a neg rep I feel like I want to cry?? Why am I so sensitive (if that's what it means)? It's really STUPID but I can't help it. also, some posts hurt ...... idk why ):

also, a lot of people are talking behind my back about me, but that's a different story.

not only online, but at home too. my brothers say little things that still hurt me deeply, and also at school.

OK.. Tough subject but same advice I gave my 18 year old daughter.. Hope it helps..

Negative reps really mean nothing.. People can be in a bad mood and give them out, just like positive ones for no reason at all. I wish we didn't have Rep systems on boards because they are bogus 99% of the time and never used for what they were meant for.. You see the comments about people handing or wanting them all the time.. You need to put this aside once and for all..

Stupid comments and back talk from others you will deal with all your life.. Some people ( notice I said some ) live for gossip.. The problem with gossip is that it always ends up hurting someone.. Gossip may involve a shred of truth but always has a lot of assumptions included in it.. The worse part about gossip is that the more you fall to it, the more you feed it..

All I can say, is take the negative aspects you see and and use it as positive things in your life.. If you learn early in life to deal with bad things and turn them into good things, you will live life a lot happier and much healthier..

Remember it doesn't matter if its online or real life.. You can apply the same ways of dealing with things to both..

Stress is 90% of health issues in life so learn to lower it as quick as possible..

 

[Goat Whisperer]

Jessica, don't act like you are the only person who get's neg reped, or who has been talked about, or who has been bullied. We all have been, and your simply not going to find any sympathy for it. Hell I three older brothers, they used to lock me in the bathroom, scare the shit out of me dressing up as ghosts, and even sit on me lol.

There are people out there with way worse lives then you.

Complaining about your life won't make it any better. Post about stuff YOU care about, instead of what you think others will like--we can tell when your being fake or posing, even over the internet. Get up the courage to go talk to someone and get some damn friends so the internet isn't your life. Join a club, like debate, and increase your self-esteem. You are making your life suck, so don't complain to me about it.

 

[Jessica]

OK.. Tough subject but same advice I gave my 18 year old daughter.. Hope it helps..

Negative reps really mean nothing.. People can be in a bad mood and give them out, just like positive ones for no reason at all. I wish we didn't have Rep systems on boards because they are bogus 99% of the time and never used for what they were meant for.. You see the comments about people handing or wanting them all the time.. You need to put this aside once and for all..

Stupid comments and back talk from others you will deal with all your life.. Some people ( notice I said some ) live for gossip.. The problem with gossip is that it always ends up hurting someone.. Gossip may involve a shred of truth but always has a lot of assumptions included in it.. The worse part about gossip is that the more you fall to it, the more you feed it..

All I can say, is take the negative aspects you see and and use it as positive things in your life.. If you learn early in life to deal with bad things and turn them into good things, you will live life a lot happier and much healthier..

Remember it doesn't matter if its online or real life.. You can apply the same ways of dealing with things to both..

Stress is 90% of health issues in life so learn to lower it as quick as possible..

thanks I got it now

Jessica, don't act like you are the only person who get's neg reped, or who has been talked about, or who has been bullied. We all have been, and your simply not going to find any sympathy for it. Hell I three older brothers, they used to lock me in the bathroom, scare the shit out of me dressing up as ghosts, and even sit on me lol.

There are people out there with way worse lives then you.

Complaining about your life won't make it any better. Post about stuff YOU care about, instead of what you think others will like--we can tell when your being fake or posing, even over the internet. Get up the courage to go talk to someone and get some damn friends so the internet isn't your life. Join a club, like debate, and increase your self-esteem. You are making your life suck, so don't complain to me about it.

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