Why...

[Ryder]

Jessica if you want advice on something the best place to go is to your mother or father or to a friend.

 

[justmee]

rep is just a number and not the end of the world if you get a negetive one here and there

if your going to spend most of your time on her then spend it enjoying talking and having fun with the other members instead of worrying about getting as much rep as you can get, post count and status then more people will want to be your friend and be around you. post count, rep and status dont get you more friends

i know i pick on you a bit along with everyone else about your obsession with post count rep and status but i`ve also tried to be nice to you and sent you a happy thanksgiving and merry christmas e-mail, also sent one just to ask a question and you totaly ignored all them

i know becoming a vip is vary important to you, and one day maybe you will but till then just enjoy your time here instead of stressing about vip, rep and all that

 

[Jessica]

I'm not obsessed with post count anymore

 

[darkcgi]

how many neg reps have you had

 

[Jessica]

More than 10.

 

[darkcgi]

wow
how come i wonder ive only got one in 3 years

 

[Jessica]

One point I got about 3 or 4 in one day *sigh* oh well

 

[darkcgi]

you seem sweet to me

 

[Alien Allen]

Not trying to justify neg reps as I have only done it once I think in response to somebody negging me and it was more as a joke than being mad or making a point.

Go back and look at the neg reps. See what you posted that caused them.

Try to learn something from that which you posted that caused a negative response.

What you are experiencing is NOTHING compared to what I dealt with at your age. I guarantee it.

 

[AUDRAA]

actually if thats the most troublesome thing in her life right now Id count myself lucky there is alot more that could be wrong

 

[Alien Allen]

actually if thats the most troublesome thing in her life right now Id count myself lucky there is alot more that could be wrong

I still am dealing with crap from back then. Shit I wished I had faced at the time instead of now.

 

[Jessica]

no it's not the most troublesome thing

 

[Natasha]

I didn't read this entire thread, only the initial post and the first few following that. Having said that, I *do* know what some of your rep comments that you've been left say and if I received some of the rep you've received I would want to cry, too. If it helps any, I don't have any problem w/ you. You're only 15...your life will change a lot in the next few years.

 

[darkcgi]

Oh man.
Once you get out of high school and move into the real world
whoo hooo things are different
I lot of Parents dont tell their children about it
and a lot of kids dont listen and take heed

 

[Jessica]

I just remembered, I have a chromosomal pair that aren't normal...or however you say that. maybe that's why.

It's called something..forgot what it was...

 

[pinkporridge]

guys pushing her off to another forum or off this one is helping your problem not hers.. clearly she feels alone..and when she feels alone she comes on line only to get more shit from you .

 

[Jessica]

This is what I have >_<

Neurofibromatosis type I - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

[Jessica]

I didn't read this entire thread, only the initial post and the first few following that. Having said that, I *do* know what some of your rep comments that you've been left say and if I received some of the rep you've received I would want to cry, too. If it helps any, I don't have any problem w/ you. You're only 15...your life will change a lot in the next few years.

*hugs* thanks

 

[chicken64]

I'm still new, so I have nearly no idea what reps are for, but I don't see anything wrong with being sensitive. If it comes naturally to you that you feel bad about getting a negative rep, then let it be. Some things that may seem trivial to others can be important to you and that it all that matters. For the talking behind the back part, I'd feel bad too if I had some people talk about me behind my back, but well, there are people you don't want to hang around with. Being talked about hurts a lot and it really makes someone feel lonely. I've gone through that before and it just wasn't fun so I don't want that to happen to anyone else. So, if you are feeling lonely and are in need of a hug I'm there to give you one. ;]

 

[Jessica]

I'm still new, so I have nearly no idea what reps are for, but I don't see anything wrong with being sensitive. If it comes naturally to you that you feel bad about getting a negative rep, then let it be. Some things that may seem trivial to others can be important to you and that it all that matters. For the talking behind the back part, I'd feel bad too if I had some people talk about me behind my back, but well, there are people you don't want to hang around with. Being talked about hurts a lot and it really makes someone feel lonely. I've gone through that before and it just wasn't fun so I don't want that to happen to anyone else. So, if you are feeling lonely and are in need of a hug I'm there to give you one. ;]

thanks :]