Why Men and Women Can't be Friends

[Tuffdisc]

I'm confused about this thread, how can men and women cannot be friends? I'm friends with lots of women, no way suggest that I am gay

 

[NoDak]

yes indeed...

*The only exception to the rule is when they are happily married*

There's what I was talking about. A lot of years ago, my wife and I weren't getting along real well. In those days, it would have been dangerous for me to be friends with another female as I was unconsciously "looking", and I knew that, so I kept away from women. Since then, we have mended our ways and are perfectly happy with each other. Thus, my friendship with "Sara" works. However, no matter how "perfect" a man/woman friendship is, the possibility of one party losing control is always there. Sara and I did talk it over. I wanted to lay my cards on the table, just in case she had ideas, that I ain't gonna go there. I think she had the same idea. The possibility of things progressing further, if we both became single, is always there. We would be lying to ourselves and each other if we said otherwise. We thought it best to take things head on and it worked!
She has full access to my medical charts and is instructed that, in the event of something serious, she will be there to help my wife should the decision to "pull the plug" need to be made. Besides, I'm the only one her daughter trusts to look after their dog, when they're away!

 

[Dana]

How can you not agree with it when you, yourself, are the perfect example? Women think they can just be friends with guys, but every woman knows when a guy wants more, but you choose to ignore it because you love being chased and love the attention. I mean, who doesn't?

Ladies, if you think the guy that you are friends with just wants to be your friend, you are sadly fooling yourself. No straight guy sits there and listens to your BS just because he wants to be your friend.

I'm pretty sure I'm going through this now...

 

[Abcinthia]

I've never thought that men and women cannot be friends and this thread has been a revaltion to me.

I'm friends with plenty of guys and never wanted to be more than friends with them. Infact, they physically do absolutely nothing for me. My female friends do not physically turn me on either. Do my male friends think sexually about me? Eh probably not after I told them in graphic detail about giving birth - how I tore, was stitched up and how it hurt everytime I pissed afterwards. I'm guessing that's a bit of a mood killer, unless they have unique sexual tastes...

 

[porterjack]

, unless they have unique sexual tastes...

How you doing!!!!

 

[BadBoy]

I've never thought that men and women cannot be friends and this thread has been a revaltion to me.

I'm friends with plenty of guys and never wanted to be more than friends with them. Infact, they physically do absolutely nothing for me. My female friends do not physically turn me on either. Do my male friends think sexually about me? Eh probably not after I told them in graphic detail about giving birth - how I tore, was stitched up and how it hurt everytime I pissed afterwards. I'm guessing that's a bit of a mood killer, unless they have unique sexual tastes...

You'd probably be surprised if you really knew. I didn't say that women can see just being friends, its the guys that have the problem.

How you doing!!!!

This just made me laugh out loud.

 

[dancingpotato]

Men and women can be friends. I have had many male friends, one of who I have known since I was born, and we will never be anything but friends. He is like a brother to me though. I do think that although I believe that men and women can be friends, I believe in 99% of cases one will have wanted to persue the relationship to something more or it has happened and realised that the feelings aren't there so it's not been progressed past that point.

 

[AUDRAA]

Way too totally contradict yourself here!

Being friends with a woman is possible, at first, but it almost always leads to one wanting more. This is how work affairs happen, hell, any kind of affair.

how did I contradict myself? Im confused

 

[BadBoy]

how did I contradict myself? Im confused

I totally used the wrong "to". Such an idiot. Anyway, you started off puzzled at why men and women couldn't be friends, then said....

"Oh and one last thing.... anyone seen that new show on MTV called friendzone? Its kind of cute, its about men and women (women/women, men/men) who have been friends for years and have developed feelings or always had feelings for their friend and want to come out of the friend zone so ask them to go on a date with them and make it a relationship."

I guess its more ironic than contradictory...

 

[BadBoy]

im in the health care field LOL but this has gone on since junior high

Uh huh....

 

[AUDRAA]

I totally used the wrong "to". Such an idiot. Anyway, you started off puzzled at why men and women couldn't be friends, then said....

"Oh and one last thing.... anyone seen that new show on MTV called friendzone? Its kind of cute, its about men and women (women/women, men/men) who have been friends for years and have developed feelings or always had feelings for their friend and want to come out of the friend zone so ask them to go on a date with them and make it a relationship."

I guess its more ironic than contradictory...

thats better then, but I must say I truely did expect more from you than such an error in wording

 

[BadBoy]

thats better then, but I must say I truely did expect more from you than such an error in wording

I truly didn't mean to use the wrong word. Hope you catch that.... Probably not though!

 

[AUDRAA]

I truly didn't mean to use the wrong word. Hope you catch that.... Probably not though!

yes I did and thats why I did it just for you sweetheart, cuz I know you love it when I do it

 

[darkcgi]

we men are humping dogs
and you women love it

 

[BadBoy]

we men are humping dogs
and you women love it

I don't know about the rest of the men here, but I am, and I quote, "not humping dogs". IJS.