It seems like an elusive creature - a great marriage. But it is possible. What do you think is the key to a good marriage?
I've been married for 28 years to a wonderful man. We have such a good relationship, he's my best friend and soulmate. But the marriage hasn't been without it's problems. I think for us, the key has been to listen, really listen, to each other and to be there, physically and emotionally, for each other. The old adage of never going to bed angry - it's actually pretty good advice. You may not be able to solve the hard, complex issues in one night, but at least get to a point where you agree to work on it.
We've also decided that no matter what, it's me and him against the world, not me against him. When something bad happens or we disagree with each other, we look at the problem as the enemy and attack it together, instead of attacking each other.
I've been married for 28 years to a wonderful man. We have such a good relationship, he's my best friend and soulmate. But the marriage hasn't been without it's problems. I think for us, the key has been to listen, really listen, to each other and to be there, physically and emotionally, for each other. The old adage of never going to bed angry - it's actually pretty good advice. You may not be able to solve the hard, complex issues in one night, but at least get to a point where you agree to work on it.
We've also decided that no matter what, it's me and him against the world, not me against him. When something bad happens or we disagree with each other, we look at the problem as the enemy and attack it together, instead of attacking each other.