I am what I am. Not much I can do about it now. Actually, I don't think there's ever been anything I could have done about it. I was like this from birth. There will always be the nature vs nurture debate but judging by how I turned out, I think it's a lot more nature. I was rejecting my mom in favour of my toes when I was only a few months old. That was all nature. My mom tried. She really did. Poor mom.