So i'm getting shit for being who I am...

sad state of affairs when u cant tell when im joking lol.

It's easy to misinterpret words on a page, Dana. The use of smilies sometimes is misleading too.

Perhaps do as I do.... choose one of these: :sarcasm or :jk

and slip it at the bottom of your post. :D
 
Ummmm.... Dana.... I'm on Facebook and it's strictly family and immediate friends. The way I talk here on this forum.... flirting, innuendos, etc., I never do that on Facebook. NEVER!

If this person is offended by your actions.... take heed if you want to remain their friend.

Maybe she should just delete you as her friend if you want to continue to be 'you'. *shrugs* You don't have to change for anyone if you don't want to. But sometimes.... you can tone it down at the very least.

So.... Yes. I do sugarcoat for others. :)

:homo:

I delete posts on my wall that are out of line and message people not to do it again. If they keep it up, I remove them.

If you don't respect others wishes, you have no respect at all.
 
:homo:

I delete posts on my wall that are out of line and message people not to do it again. If they keep it up, I remove them.

If you don't respect others wishes, you have no respect at all.
well with the way shes goin i could say respect is earned... this the same chick who popped a gasket on me after wed met and been textin for weeks. i blame it on the blond hair *runs before someone with blond hair bitches*
 
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Some people are just foul and need to realize that and better themselves.

But I guess opinions are like ass holes...every one has them.

and they all stink.

dana, it's like i said earlier, everything in its time and place. i hate to fling too much scripture around because that was so then and this is thousands of years later, but some of those things, like the golden rule are timeless.

in yiddish it's called being a mensch ; putting some of yourself away for the sake of loving some else back the way they want to be loved. for whatever their reasons, some people don't wan't to hear that stuff.

i won't hang with people who say fuck, shit, piss, cocksucking motherfucker god dammit so much that it sounds like that's all their saying. it's not because i'm necessarily offended, it's because i make an effort not to use that kind of language to excess that i feel it's only fair that if someone else can't or won't make the same kind of effort for me, i don't need to be around it.
 
If you're posting on her wall, then I think you should respect her wishes. If she's concerned with things showing up "third person", well, that's her problem.

I had someone... oh! I met a friend for drinks one night and he brought a couple of his buddies with him. I was in particularly flirtatious mood, and acted in a way I usually don't. They thought it would be appropriate to carry that over on my facebook profile. So I deleted it and messaged them that it wasn't okay and they kept it up. Took me less than 30 seconds to take them off. I don't have time for people who refuse to respect me.
 
I will say that you DO tend to throw the F word out a lot. Not that it offends me...but people here have mentioned it to you before and it didn't change. So I believe you when you say you don't change for anybody. I used to use the F word a lot on my Facebook and decided on my own to tone it down a little, especially after we had a big to-do at work over something that was on a co-worker's Facebook.

Which brings me to this...

IMO... Id never add a boss to my FB page if I had one or I'd set up a separate acct. I don't believe in acting one way and then actin like that ain't me. I don't do that. Who I am online is who I am everywhere.

Some of us don't get that choice. It is now in our SOP that we must either approve our Lt as a friend or allow her to access our Facebook by signing into our account for her. When you work in public safety, people know you do...and they will shoot a letter to the Sheriff real quick like to complain about something you said or did on Facebook.

Parrots swear???
 
I will say that you DO tend to throw the F word out a lot. Not that it offends me...but people here have mentioned it to you before and it didn't change. So I believe you when you say you don't change for anybody. I used to use the F word a lot on my Facebook and decided on my own to tone it down a little, especially after we had a big to-do at work over something that was on a co-worker's Facebook.

Which brings me to this...



Some of us don't get that choice. It is now in our SOP that we must either approve our Lt as a friend or allow her to access our Facebook by signing into our account for her. When you work in public safety, people know you do...and they will shoot a letter to the Sheriff real quick like to complain about something you said or did on Facebook.

Parrots swear???

Serious? Isnt that an invasion of your rights/privacy? I dont see how it could have ANY bearing on how you do your job.

I'm sure our emergency operators here dont have to do that...I will definitely be asking.
 
Serious? Isnt that an invasion of your rights/privacy? I dont see how it could have ANY bearing on how you do your job.

I'm sure our emergency operators here dont have to do that...I will definitely be asking.
We have a morality clause in our contract that we sign when we get hired on here...it included on and off-duty behaviors.
 
Parrots swear???

I was wondering the same thing. Perhaps he meant Pirates. Easy to confuse Pirates and Parrots too.... since those parrots are always sitting on a pirate's shoulder.

.... or..... maybe he teaches Parrots to swear? :shrug:
 
I will say that you DO tend to throw the F word out a lot. Not that it offends me...but people here have mentioned it to you before and it didn't change. So I believe you when you say you don't change for anybody. I used to use the F word a lot on my Facebook and decided on my own to tone it down a little, especially after we had a big to-do at work over something that was on a co-worker's Facebook.

Which brings me to this...



Some of us don't get that choice. It is now in our SOP that we must either approve our Lt as a friend or allow her to access our Facebook by signing into our account for her. When you work in public safety, people know you do...and they will shoot a letter to the Sheriff real quick like to complain about something you said or did on Facebook.

Parrots swear???
that is stupid and yes if you teach them. :24::24:
 
I'll keep harsh opinons to myself but otherwise will speak my mind.
I accept the fact I'm annoying, full of sexual innuendo's, am rather in your face and full of myself
But if you can't tolerate me then find someone else to talk too, I hate intolerent people I can put up with other peoples rubbish so you should be able to put up with me.
 
ok dana....theres sexual innuendo and pervishness,an example....theres this little black girl at work,now shes as cute as any girl can be,only 21....well we get on like a house on fire,she really is a good laugh....if i said to her 'get your tits out then let me abuse you' thats perving in a big way.....but as it goes shes agreed to be my special christmas present in nothing but a red ribbon,it'll never happen but that innuendo...and its all said in a fun way
 
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