Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full custody?

[UncleBacon]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

I think she should have to pay

 

[GraceAbounds]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Yes, that is how I got the money I did. However, as stupid as she is, she is smart when it comes to working under the table to avoid such things as taxes.

Seems like an awful lot of trouble to go through to get out of paying such a reasonable amount? Does your child ever see her? Are the old enough to make heads and tails of the situation for themselves?

It is sad because in the end the person it hurts the most is the innocent child.

Sorry you and yours are having to deal with this Steve.

But look on the bright side, the child is with the parent that takes care of them and loves them. Some kids don't even have that unfortunately.

 

[Homer]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Chris you now who i'm talking about right , Benson.

 

[NightWarrior]

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Seems like an awful lot of trouble to go through to get out of paying such a reasonable amount? Does your child ever see her? Are the old enough to make heads and tails of the situation for themselves?

It is sad because in the end the person it hurts the most is the innocent child.

Sorry you and yours are having to deal with this Steve.

But look on the bright side, the child is with the parent that takes care of them and loves them. Some kids don't even have that unfortunately.

Yeah, $200 is reasonable. But for someone living in eastern NC where there are no real paying jobs (military town), that amount is a huge chunk of change. My son does see her, but there was a time when she didn't call, write or see him for 5 years of his life. Not my choice, she just "disappeared".

Thanks for your sentiment Gracie. He is 15, so he is old enough to realize.

 

[GraceAbounds]

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I didn't stop to think about the cost of living in your area, so what seems reasonable to me - well I see your point. I live in a pretty high cost of living area. $2,400 is a monthly mortgage payment here.

This is one of those 'things' in life that just suck.

I hope your son deals with in a mentally healthy manner. I am always concerned about how my kids are processing things, praying that they can work through things and not hold on to them like a ball and chain - holding them back.

My heartstrings are getting all mush now. LOL!

 

[NightWarrior]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

I didn't stop to think about the cost of living in your area, so what seems reasonable to me - well I see your point. I live in a pretty high cost of living area. $2,400 is a monthly mortgage payment here.

This is one of those 'things' in life that just suck.

I hope your son deals with in a mentally healthy manner. I am always concerned about how my kids are processing things, praying that they can work through things and not hold on to them like a ball and chain - holding them back.

My heartstrings are getting all mush now. LOL!

Its the cost of living where she is living, not me.

I hope he grows up mentally healthy as well. He has gone thru a lot. Abandonment is the worse. I have tried to fill in as best I can.

 

[GraceAbounds]

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Its the cost of living where she is living, not me.

I hope he grows up mentally healthy as well. He has gone thru a lot. Abandonment is the worse. I have tried to fill in as best I can.

Love can fill many gaps. Just keep on being the best Dad you can be. (as I'm sure you are)

Ok - I'm officially mushed out now.

 

[NightWarrior]

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Love can fill many gaps. Just keep on being the best Dad you can be. (as I'm sure you are)

Ok - I'm officially mushed out now.

So am I. Thinking about what he has gone thru brings a tear to my eye sometimes. I wish I could take all that pain away.

 

[AUDRAA]

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Steve youre a great dad!

 

[NightWarrior]

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Steve youre a great dad!

Thanks

 

[Boomer]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Naw, they shouldnt be accountable. We know women cant support children without a mans help.....























































:jk

 

[NightWarrior]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

I should edit that post Boomer and take away the j/k part and let the women of OTz tear you a new one

 

[Boomer]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

I should edit that post Boomer and take away the j/k part and let the women of OTz tear you a new one

I think that would be a glorious death!:clap

 

[UncleBacon]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Chris you now who i'm talking about right , Benson.

I figured as much...I feel bad for him sometimes but he put himself there

 

[COOL_BREEZE2]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Just seems kind of odd for a woman to be paying child support. Maybe cause for so long it's basically always been the man to pay.

 

[NuckingFuts]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Without a doubt. It took her to help make the child. But we are the ones always called the dead beat dads. No matter who has custody or not they should always love and care enough for their child to want to do the right thing.

 

[NightWarrior]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

Just seems kind of odd for a woman to be paying child support. Maybe cause for so long it's basically always been the man to pay.

It seemed odd to some that women were allowed to vote in our nations history. Time for change is never odd.

 

[AUDRAA]

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I just found out I may have to pay child support to my ex even though we have 50/50 custody since I make more money wanna talk about messed up

 

[Breath]

Re: Should women be equally accountable for child support if the father has full cust

We know women cant support children without a mans help.....
:jk

Even though you said j/k...my mother couldn't.

I totally agree that both parents should be held equally accountable for any children they bring into the world. I cannot even imagine the mindset that allows a person to have no guilt or responsibility.

 

[Homer]

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i'm always amazed at how low some people will go and not just when it comes to child support.:smiley24: