Random PW thread!

[GuesSAngel]

alright everyone, i'm heading to bed.

 

[GuesSAngel]

goodnight.

 

[Suzie]

I understand... its happened to the best of us before. I dont get into too much of my life either... but every now and then I need to come on here and vent and get other peoples thoughts. Not many men can do what you did and turn it down. You should feel proud of yourself because you are bettering yourself in the long run.

 

[SRC]

until you find the right person, each relationship is supposed to be a lesson learned in life, and prepares you for the next one...no matter how much it hurts.

Amen to that. Without failed relationships .. you wouldn't know how to do things right.

 

[Suzie]

gnight guessA

 

[UncleBacon]

its just funny to me...(not saying all women)women always talk and cry about how they want that 1 guy that really treats them good...treats them like a woman should be treated and when they get that...they ruin it

 

[UncleBacon]

goodnight alicia

 

[Suzie]

cuz people always want the oppisite of what they have Chris... even if they have everything they have always wanted. It will always be more.

 

[UncleBacon]

Amen to that. Without failed relationships .. you wouldn't know how to do things right.

I've learned quite a bit and I've grown up a lot when it comes to relationships...now I'm just waiting not looking

 

[UncleBacon]

my last few relationships have made it hard for me to let someone in close to me though and trust...I find it hard to trust

 

[Suzie]

And I am still having a hard time trusting people. Even after being with someone for 9 years. The fact is people arent 100% honest. And you will pretty much guarantee yourself to find your other half lying about something. I used to not think that way... but things have changed.

 

[SRC]

I dont want to seem crass about this .. and I don't want you to take this as me being uncaring of your feelings .. I'm just gonna be blunt/honest/frank with you ...

Most of us do want that. Matter o factly .. probably all of us want that. But sometimes people are selfish. Sometimes people are greedy. And sometimes people are with the wrong people. It doesn't matter how good someone treats another person .. if the other person isn't 100% completely into you .. it doesn't matter what you do for them .. they are apt to do stupid things.

I have had several GF's do this. They cry, and bitch, and moan to me for months about wanting a "good guy" who will "treat them great". Then along comes this great guy (imo) that does everything under the moon for them. Problem usually turns out .. she isn't as into the guy as she thought she would be. And do you know what they end up doing .. they end up using the guy.

Unfortunately for the guy they usually find out later rather than sooner and they end up hurt. I can't tell you how many times I've lost friends over this. I find it very rude to do it to someone .. and even though I know why they do it .. I will never understand it.

:heart: and :hugs:

 

[Eridanus]

until you find the right person, each relationship is supposed to be a lesson learned in life, and prepares you for the next one...no matter how much it hurts.

I couldn't agree more.

Chris, everyone is completely right, you are, and shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Emotionally shielding yourself from someone who has, and by your vent is continuing to "play" on your emotions, is not wrong...it's smart.

 

[Eridanus]

I've learned quite a bit and I've grown up a lot when it comes to relationships...now I'm just waiting not looking

In my experience that is the best way to be...someone will find you, or vice versa, when you least expect it, and more often than not in the most unlikely place.

 

[Ria]

Hi Chris.

This is going to have to be very short (for me), as need slp now, badly.

I just want you to know, that you have done the right thing and you deserve to have someone to trust, the same as anyone.

It's a shame it had to be like that, but hope you manage to find that special person you can trust.

Nite nite Chris and everyone else here.

Eyes are closing again, I am afraid I'll have to go now.

 

[UncleBacon]

I don't let many people in when it comes to emotions and now even less

 

[UncleBacon]

goodnight ria

 

[Suzie]

As hard as it may be, you have to try and let some people in. Not everyone is out to get you, although it may feel that way now. Your only hurting yourself by not letting people in. Your missing out on what could be good relationships... they might just pass you by because you wont let them in.

 

[Eridanus]

My sister met her fiance at a rubbish dump. Proof that you don't know where you might meet someone.

 

[UncleBacon]

I just think too much about what someone elses real intentions are