You're clearly not grasping the fact that I said it is okay to say in an adult, serious discussion. I never said it was okay to just throw around.
Spare me your "you're clearly not grasping...." bullshit. I never said anything about throwing it around. Why can't you have an intelligent conversation with the individuals I mentioned before?
It is you who truly does not GRASP that it is in fact NOT okay to use that word. Why would you need to discuss the word? Why not just discuss racial comments in general without being specific?