My Sexuality

[Shekii]

For three years I've been sexually attracted to men.

And most of the females know at my school, only one male friend known. My Mother Sister dad and brother know and accept me me for who I am.

I'm officially still in school (year 10) moreover, do you think it's time to come out considering the decade and century.

I'm just scared of what people will think....

 

[KLD1019]

i fully support and stand behind you! do it! dont be scared! ::hug::

 

[Shekii]

Thanks for your consideration and opines although, I'm just scared of what people will think.

I'm sure you'll understand because it's school, you know what kids are like.

 

[KLD1019]

yeah school can be harsh. it also depends on if you go to a big school or little school. my graduating class had 76 kids in it, so if someone was gay/lesbian, it was well known whether or not one came out. and because it was a small school, it left little room for teasing because everyone knew everyone and was friends with everyone

 

[brieze]

If your friends accept you, who cares what the others think? Odds are you'll never see them again in a few years anyway.

 

[Thornless]

Do other kids go around telling everyone they are straight?

I say tell who you want to and trust.

 

[Johnfromokc]

People can be complete assholes as I'm sure you are aware - so expect flack from some. Use caution and good judgement in all situations and don't let negative people mess with your mind. If you are in grade 10, you are still a minor - so educate yourself as to legal issues that could affect your or someone elses life concerning sexual activity. Best wishes.

 

[Dana]

That's something only you can decide for yourself.

 

[BleedingBull]

you already have the support of the people that matter to you, so really fuck what anyone thinks, you will never be happy living the way you are expected to live, so just be yourself, you only live once lol

 

[skyblue]

how olds year 10?

 

[skyblue]

ok...you're 15/16,it could be just a case of your hormones running riot.leaving you a little confused etc...i'd hold back on the coming out thing if i were you

 

[Abcinthia]

how olds year 10?

14-15 years old.



And do what you want. There might be some narrow minded people who make a big deal about it but at the end of the day, you'll probably never see them again when school is finished.

 

[Zorak]

Probably hard to realise now for you, but school is such a minor and small part of your life, you'll be going on to bigger and better things within a few years anyway. So for now, just do what makes you happy.

 

[Aeval]

I like the "do people announce they're straight" comment. You be you and be happy....everything will fall into place.

 

[Veronica]

If you feel ashamed by coming out then maybe you need to start feeling more comfortable with it before you can expect others to feel comfortable with it.

If you truly except yourself for WHO you are, then you shouldnt worry what other people say.

 

[Shekii]

Most of the female's know at my school and fully accept me, as you can imagine since they're girls.

Only a few boys know and they respect me.

The school has gone down the crap pan this few years so there's what? 80 in my year, so not a lot.

 

[BleedingBull]

Most of the female's know at my school and fully accept me, as you can imagine since they're girls.

Only a few boys know and they respect me.

The school has gone down the crap pan this few years so there's what? 80 in my year, so not a lot.

when you leave school you wont see most if not all of them, so why build your life around the approval of people that wont even be in it long term, its your life, live it how you want or one day you'll be out of that crowd and probably still feeling lost inside not been as you want to be, and full of regrets.

 

[Ryder]

You shouldn't care what other people think. Be yourself and be proud of who you are. Your sexual orientation is not something to be embarrassed or scared about.

 

[Joe the meek]

I'm just scared of what people will think....

Don't worry what people will think.

That said, one speech I always remember my father giving me was the fact that I, as I child would not always have my father around to protect me. He told me kids can be cruel and can take advantage of any kindness you show as they could see that as a weakness, and that sooner or later if I didn't want to fight that I didn't have to, but until I stood up for myself, I could always be the target of "bullies". Some of the best advice he ever gave me was that if I ever found myself outnumbered and I felt in danger, accept the fact that I would probably get the living shit kicked out of me and go for the biggest guy in the crowed and take him down as fast as I could. If I was lucky, cowards run in packs, and by taking the biggest guy down, you stand a 50/50 chance of getting out of it.

Learn how to defend yourself. If you ever have to try to take the biggest guy down, it's not bad to have a game plan.

Hopefully when you're out of high school, you won't have as many morons to deal with.

 

[Francis]

People will hate you and love you for all sorts of reasons..

You could be anything and people will hate you for being conservative or liberal, tall or short, fat or skinny..

I hate to say this but you need to start by loving the person inside of you and than you life will all make sense..