Men! What do you wish women knew about men?

[Aeval]

Oops...I'm in the wrong thread....sorry.

 

[rback33]

Ummmm....make your own supper at the time you want to eat it. Problem solved.

Oh because then you can be pissed because we are eating at a normal time and not waiting to eat what you had planned? seen THAT trap a few times..

 

[Aeval]

Oh because then you can be pissed because we are eating at a normal time and not waiting to eat what you had planned? seen THAT trap a few times..

LOL...wouldn't happen in my house.

3 choices: wait, cook yourself or starve. I'm not partial to any one of the choices.

 

[rback33]

Had to split this up as my phone likes to eat posts...

Not all of us are into a specifically sized woman. Most of us see beauty all around us.

When we say you are beautiful, especially when it is unprompted, you should believe it. Most of us are sincere in that sentiment

I am with Este.. you nailed this. Women can be beautiful big and small... size has a pretty limited amount of influence on what we find attractive.

 

[rback33]

LOL...wouldn't happen in my house.

3 choices: wait, cook yourself or starve. I'm not partial to any one of the choices.

LOL good! Have fun cooking for yerself because I need to eat

 

[Aeval]

LOL good! Have fun cooking for yerself because I need to eat

Go right ahead, make sure you clean up after yourself too.

 

[Jackass master]

Go right ahead, make sure you clean up after yourself too.

I cook over 40% of the meals around here. And if I want clean dishes and silverware I wash also. She did not keep me around 35 years just for sex!!!

 

[Aeval]

I cook over 40% of the meals around here. And if I want clean dishes and silverware I wash also. She did not keep me around 35 years just for sex!!!

Good man.

We share...if I cook, he cleans and vice versa. The only thing that gets me is how many damn dishes he has to use to make a simple meal, he dirties EVERYTHING, it's ridiculous.

Luckily, I do 90% of the cooking when I'm home so I don't have to worry about his mess.

And Jer....when I'm home and he's working, I make sure supper is on the table when he gets in at 6 o'clock. It's the weekend that wine takes priorty and he can starve for all I care, lol.

 

[nadrrek]

One I've noticed recently is a lot of girls simply assuming that you're a "player". I was getting close a girl recently and started to really like her, right up until I saw her with another guy in a club. When I asked her about it, it was because she "thought I never liked her, and I was player and just after the sex". No, just because I am a guy, does not mean that I am a prick who just wants in your pants...

 

[Leah Love]

One I've noticed recently is a lot of girls simply assuming that you're a "player". I was getting close a girl recently and started to really like her, right up until I saw her with another guy in a club. When I asked her about it, it was because she "thought I never liked her, and I was player and just after the sex". No, just because I am a guy, does not mean that I am a prick who just wants in your pants...

To be fair, there ARE quite a few "players" out there. Sure it is a mistake to think everyone is the same way as the last jerk you went out with, but many men make the same mistake as women :dunno

Heh, would it be so hard to just go up to a woman in a bar and say, "Hi. I am looking for a causal encounter. Nothing serious, just sex. Is that something you would be interested in? No? Ah, shame. Thanks for answering tho. Bye" instead of doing the player routine?
I actually had a guy come up to me asking for a one night stand a little while back. When I told him I was not interested he smiled, told me to enjoy my night and walked away. I was impressed LoL

 

[AUFred]

Good man.

We share...if I cook, he cleans and vice versa. The only thing that gets me is how many damn dishes he has to use to make a simple meal, he dirties EVERYTHING, it's ridiculous.

Luckily, I do 90% of the cooking when I'm home so I don't have to worry about his mess.

And Jer....when I'm home and he's working, I make sure supper is on the table when he gets in at 6 o'clock. It's the weekend that wine takes priorty and he can starve for all I care, lol.

That sounds a lot like our arrangement one cooks the other cleans. I plan meals and my wife tends to wing it. I cook a fair amount but she probably cooks more than I do. I like to use the grill or the crockpot so I usually use those unless it is a frozen meal I toss in the oven or cook on the cooktop.

 

[HK]

I actually had a guy come up to me asking for a one night stand a little while back. When I told him I was not interested he smiled, told me to enjoy my night and walked away. I was impressed LoL

That would impress me too. Hell, I'd be tempted guys are just as capable as girls of being ridiculously clingy after sex, it'd be refreshing to just have it upfront that we're both after a mutually satisfying shag, no strings attached.



Seriously men. You don't have to pretend you're in love with us to get sex, some of us are happy with something more casual!

 

[Panacea]

Seriously men. You don't have to pretend you're in love with us to get sex, some of us are happy with something more casual!

I agree, but it's all about honesty. Just be what you are, good and bad, and let others decide if it's what they want. Don't put on a front like you're one thing and then let people down when they get close to you. It's stupid. Goes for anyone!

 

[NoDak]

Girls, when your guy invites you to go along to an event that he's really lovin' but you don't, reconsider before you turn him down. Some of us fellas, in our clumsy way of showing that we love you, do this because we want to share our world with you. Turn us down a coupla times, and you'll not likely be invited anymore. "What's the use?" is one phrase which goes though our heads a lot, when it comes to our women.
Also, our activities tend to become part of us. This includes our work. " I am a plumber" is more likely to come from a man's mouth than, "I do plumbing work". Gals tend to be better able to separate themselves from their occupations than guys. Our career becomes part of us which is why so many times guys talk shop in their off hours, especially when there are more in a group who do the same kind of work.
Also, our hobbies tend to become a part of us. Insult a man's hobby and he's likely to be hurt, right to the core. Though I don't own any, I enjoy old farm tractors and would like one or two of my own. My wife looks at them as "junk". "We don't farm" has been said. "You don't need a tractor, we live in town." True on both counts. However, I'd like to have one to tinker with and drive around for enjoyment, just as a lot of people enjoy taking an antique car out for a Sunday afternoon drive.

Also, and very importantly for both sexes, take time to compliment and show appreciation for the efforts of the other person. Mentioning something about how nice the lawn looks after we've cut and trimmed goes quite a ways with us men. Thanking and complimenting whichever one cooked a meal is appreciated. Wanna wear your partner out? Just get into the mode where you only mention what they've done wrong. Time after time, "You forgot to shut the light off in the den", or "You should help out with the dishes or laundry more " tends to cut notches in the other's self esteem to the point that they give up because they feel like they'll never please you anyway, so why try?
Keep that up long enough and if they feel appreciated, by someone else....... They might just keep going there for appreciation................
Need I say more?

 

[Mercury]

Girls, when your guy invites you to go along to an event that he's really lovin' but you don't, reconsider before you turn him down. Some of us fellas, in our clumsy way of showing that we love you, do this because we want to share our world with you. Turn us down a coupla times, and you'll not likely be invited anymore. "What's the use?" is one phrase which goes though our heads a lot, when it comes to our women.
Also, our activities tend to become part of us. This includes our work. " I am a plumber" is more likely to come from a man's mouth than, "I do plumbing work". Gals tend to be better able to separate themselves from their occupations than guys. Our career becomes part of us which is why so many times guys talk shop in their off hours, especially when there are more in a group who do the same kind of work.
Also, our hobbies tend to become a part of us. Insult a man's hobby and he's likely to be hurt, right to the core. Though I don't own any, I enjoy old farm tractors and would like one or two of my own. My wife looks at them as "junk". "We don't farm" has been said. "You don't need a tractor, we live in town." True on both counts. However, I'd like to have one to tinker with and drive around for enjoyment, just as a lot of people enjoy taking an antique car out for a Sunday afternoon drive.

Also, and very importantly for both sexes, take time to compliment and show appreciation for the efforts of the other person. Mentioning something about how nice the lawn looks after we've cut and trimmed goes quite a ways with us men. Thanking and complimenting whichever one cooked a meal is appreciated. Wanna wear your partner out? Just get into the mode where you only mention what they've done wrong. Time after time, "You forgot to shut the light off in the den", or "You should help out with the dishes or laundry more " tends to cut notches in the other's self esteem to the point that they give up because they feel like they'll never please you anyway, so why try?
Keep that up long enough and if they feel appreciated, by someone else....... They might just keep going there for appreciation................
Need I say more?

Very well said!!! :clap:clap:clap:clap

 

[36gamer]

That I'm not flirting with you, I'm just chatty. Or for when I have a girlfriend: I'm not hitting on her, I'm just chatty.