I dont mean to flirt with you so much........ im sorry....yer just so damn sexahhhh :willy_nilly:
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wow ..slightly defensive!!!...ok, some mod change the title to, married men and women please??? we dont do sexism here...and after all considering this thread was from personal experience i dont mind the fact that a married woman came on to me.
hope that helps??
hope that helps??
Look at the bolded part:
That is a stereotype. Just like if I said all black people run fast or all British people have bad teeth. It's a stereotype, and it is wrong.
I'm so sorry for upsetting you by presenting an opposing view. God forbid someone should disagree with Queen Trina.
As for the "thanks for stopping in", do you really think I'm going to let you dictate where I do and don't post? Not gonna happen.
Instead of going off the deep end, you should consider the point I brought up. THE WOMAN IS JUST AS MUCH AT FAULT AS THE MAN! Of course, you don't want to agree with that. but that doesn't make it any less true.
BadBoy@TheWheel
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Fuck it...I'll say something, I wasn't going to because I knew I'd face the normal smartass responses, but here goes:
I am only going to own up to my own faults, I am not going to blame someone else for my mis-deeds.
Have I crossed the line where some of what I have done could be considered crossing the line? At first I felt like, hell no it's all in fun. However somewhere along the way, I think I lost sight of what my own personal boundaries should be, and what amount of respect I owe to people I love, along with what amount of respect I should naturally extend to a woman because she's a human being with feelings too.
Have I been deceptive in an attempt to get what I wanted: Yes, simply put, failure to mention a detail, like "I'm married" is dishonesty by omission, regardless of opinion I feel like it is, and frankly I would be upset to find out my wife was doing it, or to find out someone did it to me here, so what makes me think I'm so special?
Have I harmed others with my actions?: I say yes, not only have I been told that I have, but I got really mad at someone calling me out, and I decided to take an honest look at my actions, and it became clear, there's a line bewteen innocent post whoring and suggestive banter and outright wrong, and I made up my mind to recognize the line, and respect to a level I would expect to be treated with.
Now I have NO room to judge anyone, I have been guilty of everything BUT physical cheating, that line I have never crossed, but I think it's a dangerous game when you start playing the same games that you would if you were at a bar talking to some woman. So banter, yeah it's cool....But the behind the scenes bullshit I think is harmful for all involved.
And I take full responibility for what I've done, I blame nobody....Anymore
I am only going to own up to my own faults, I am not going to blame someone else for my mis-deeds.
Have I crossed the line where some of what I have done could be considered crossing the line? At first I felt like, hell no it's all in fun. However somewhere along the way, I think I lost sight of what my own personal boundaries should be, and what amount of respect I owe to people I love, along with what amount of respect I should naturally extend to a woman because she's a human being with feelings too.
Have I been deceptive in an attempt to get what I wanted: Yes, simply put, failure to mention a detail, like "I'm married" is dishonesty by omission, regardless of opinion I feel like it is, and frankly I would be upset to find out my wife was doing it, or to find out someone did it to me here, so what makes me think I'm so special?
Have I harmed others with my actions?: I say yes, not only have I been told that I have, but I got really mad at someone calling me out, and I decided to take an honest look at my actions, and it became clear, there's a line bewteen innocent post whoring and suggestive banter and outright wrong, and I made up my mind to recognize the line, and respect to a level I would expect to be treated with.
Now I have NO room to judge anyone, I have been guilty of everything BUT physical cheating, that line I have never crossed, but I think it's a dangerous game when you start playing the same games that you would if you were at a bar talking to some woman. So banter, yeah it's cool....But the behind the scenes bullshit I think is harmful for all involved.
And I take full responibility for what I've done, I blame nobody....Anymore
BadBoy@TheWheel
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Moved to Philosophy and Debate
Wookiegirl
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I need a drink or something.
did you see what I posted?
Can I speaka da english? :willy_nilly:
Wookiegirl
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well there's a sure fired way to keep me outta the thread
BadBoy@TheWheel
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BTW, and to comment AGAIN on my post.....I didn't post that because of any one person....So Ummmmm.....I actually have a mind of my very own, and it occasionally works fabulous.
Kthanks :24:
It's really simple folks, you ask a question, and people answer, it's not rocket science
Kthanks :24:
It's really simple folks, you ask a question, and people answer, it's not rocket science
BadBoy@TheWheel
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Not really what i meant when i said remove Evan but cheers big ears
I'm didn't feel like it needed to be deleted.
I felt like it needed to be moved where there is a little latitude and it waill attract those who like to debate philisophical issues.
And it's frankly a good topic.....
Excellent Post. Some of which I can relate to.
I enjoy innuendos and flirting for sure. No promises are made..... No behind the scenes carrying on so to speak. Just some adult banter for fun.
Each of us must set limits. Care must be taken to not fault another's reaction for our own actions.
I'm sure I could say more, but I can't find the words right now.
Fox Mulder
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What happens is the women flaunt it--its their fault--they beg to be hit on and Mulder always accomodates!!! :cool
He is always accomidating........ thats one thing you can always say for Mulder
Oh you are so right. I mean, the fact that they come out of their house means they want it, right
When it comes down to it, fact of the matter is, married or not flirting or friendship, we are a community, i mean hell we all get flirty now and then married or not, Im a shocker at it and im not married and yet in a relationship i consider important, in the end its a matter of what you know is an allowable thing and what isnt, its all in good taste from what ive seen unless im missing something :eek
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