Married men!!!

[wednesday]

right...i have a laugh with the girls t work all the time......i might put my arm around ones shoulder and ask someone if they like my new girlfriend(usually her boyfriend:ninja).....if i was being pervy i'd possibly linger there or do it more often

Ian your not married u doughnut:24::24:

 

[flipx]

right...i have a laugh with the girls t work all the time......i might put my arm around ones shoulder and ask someone if they like my new girlfriend(usually her boyfriend:ninja).....if i was being pervy i'd possibly linger there or do it more often

Yeah... and staring when you think nobody is looking, that sort of thing. That's just being a perv, being a flirt is when you and they also know it's all in lightheartedness and banter.

 

[wednesday]

Sweet potatoes....you people, its not about looking, or flirting...ita about crossing the bounderies...if your married, where do you stop???
Shit sticks when i was married i used to check out mens crutches....(ive said too much again havnt i?)

 

[Covey]

Whys that?

May I direct you to the first line of the statement i quoted....... thats why :ninja

 

[dt3]

Who's worse, the married guy chasing it or the girl who knows he's married and does it anyway?

 

[jassilem]

Sweet potatoes....you people, its not about looking, or flirting...ita about crossing the bounderies...if your married, where do you stop???
Shit sticks when i was married i used to check out mens crutches....(ive said too much again havnt i?)

It's all depends on your relationship.

Some couples get off on turning others on.. it's a dicey thing.

:willy_nilly:

 

[Covey]

Who's worse, the married guy chasing it or the girl who knows he's married and does it anyway?

Well some girls dont know the guy is married....... i could give examples .....but im bound to secracy :ninja

 

[wednesday]

Who's worse, the married guy chasing it or the girl who knows he's married and does it anyway?

Good point Donnie...
But what if that girl is given a false sense of security....or..very young ?
But your right, i think both r at fault.....but, at the end of the day, the girl isnt married to the wife

 

[flipx]

Sweet potatoes....you people, its not about looking, or flirting...ita about crossing the bounderies...if your married, where do you stop???
Shit sticks when i was married i used to check out mens crutches....(ive said too much again havnt i?)

I just said though... lol. When yourself, and the other person you are flirting with know it's all in lightheartedness and banter. It's pretty obvious where the line is, and what you should and should not be doing I thought.

 

[DoctorDisco]

May I direct you to the first line of the statement i quoted....... thats why :ninja

I'm talking about fighting lol I promise

I would never plot sex any other way then consensually if that is what your getting at

 

[Dana]

I have no idea... I'm not married nor have I ever been. I am a smooth talker though but it comes natural.

 

[dt3]

Well some girls dont know the guy is married....... i could give examples .....but im bound to secracy :ninja

And there's also plenty of examples where they know he is.

Good point Donnie...
But what if that girl is given a false sense of security....or..very young ?
But your right, i think both r at fault.....but, at the end of the day, the girl isnt married to the wife

So at the end of the day it's still the man's fault? Sense of security and age are poor excuese for messing with a guy. What it boils down to, if she knows he's married, is that she decided to be the "other woman". Trying to blame the guy for the decision she makes is completely illogical.

 

[DoctorDisco]

If you really want to know if your man wants her pants.. look at his body language.. it never lies

Look at his facial expressions when he talks to her. If his feet/body are always pointed at her. How he treats you around her.

And if you plan on confronting him on it... make sure you're in a good mood. A full frontal accusation would just encourage him.

 

[wednesday]

And there's also plenty of examples where they know he is.


So at the end of the day it's still the man's fault? Sense of security and age are poor excuese for messing with a guy. What it boils down to, if she knows he's married, is that she decided to be the "other woman". Trying to blame the guy for the decision she makes is completely illogical.

When have i stated i blame the guy? I stated i think both r at fault.....but, you asked which is worse in my eyes...and ive said the man! He took oaths, hes the one with a family...so you can say that its illogical, you can say its biased...but if an older and more wiser man came on to a young girl, who was in awe of him...felt so flattered hed noticed her...then yer the guys a wanker.

That said in other circumstances im sure my veiw would change...but, this isnt about all the men jumping on me in defense of there man hood....its your veiws on whats crossing the line donnie...Not when ya do whos fault is it.....

 

[AUFred]

I don't think I understood the question. I am an old long married guy.

 

[Butterfly]

if your married, where do you stop???

As I said earlier, it's up to each person's own sensibility.
Some marriages, looking at porn is crossing the line. Some marriages, having cyber affairs is fine. Some marriages having relationships outside the partnership is fine. It's all about what the line is in each marriage as a unique entity.

 

[wednesday]

As I said earlier, it's up to each person's own sensibility.
Some marriages, looking at porn is crossing the line. Some marriages, having cyber affairs is fine. Some marriages having relationships outside the partnership is fine. It's all about what the line is in each marriage as a unique entity.

thankyou:clap

 

[Wookiegirl]

As I said earlier, it's up to each person's own sensibility.
Some marriages, looking at porn is crossing the line. Some marriages, having cyber affairs is fine. Some marriages having relationships outside the partnership is fine. It's all about what the line is in each marriage as a unique entity.

:homo:
You know in your own marriage, in your own relationship where that line is. I don't think judging other people cuz they don't abide by your principles is being a bit judgemental.

 

[dt3]

When have i stated i blame the guy? I stated i think both r at fault.....but, you asked which is worse in my eyes...and ive said the man! He took oaths, hes the one with a family...so you can say that its illogical, you can say its biased...but if an older and more wiser man came on to a young girl, who was in awe of him...felt so flattered hed noticed her...then yer the guys a wanker.

That said in other circumstances im sure my veiw would change...but, this isnt about all the men jumping on me in defense of there man hood....its your veiws on whats crossing the line donnie...Not when ya do whos fault is it.....

My point is that the line gets crossed both ways. So instead of asking why married men cross the line, why don't you ask why do women cross the line with married men? Why do women let married men get to the line to begin with? No man has ever crossed the line alone.

This whole thread is nothing but lumping all married guys together and bashing them. Stereotyping is bad.

 

[wednesday]

My point is that the line gets crossed both ways. So instead of asking why married men cross the line, why don't you ask why do women cross the line with married men? Why do women let married men get to the line to begin with? No man has ever crossed the line alone.

This whole thread is nothing but lumping all married guys together and bashing them. Stereotyping is bad.

um..wot?? r u serious???Im stereo typing married men??.By asking a fucking question??
Ok donnie....that was uncalled for. but thats your veiw. thanks for stopping in.