NOTE FOR SKIPPY; I am not upset... but I'd like to point a few things out here for you.
Let me make one thing clear. Just because a guy gives you a compliment does not mean he is hitting on you. This is what people in their late 30's and 40's know because they have experience life, not just begining it.
I will not give out visual compliments, because I see this is not a mature board. (Meaning experience life completely)
Don't get me wrong, I respect all of you, but we all go through stages in life.
Most of you are at the party stage because you really still don't have the responsabilities that older people aquire. Have kids and providing for them is a good start.
I had no problems with this post; Until I read this bolded line. That's an assumption, and it makes you look like an ass, I don't enjoy people telling me I'm irresponsible. I've held the same job for a year now, I had my last job for a year prior to this one. I quit my prior to work at a company that laid me off, while my second job that I had AT THE SAME TIME laid me off as well when they closed the store. Fuckers.
Anywho, I go to work everyday, and I pay my bills on time. How else would I have been able to keep my car for 3 years, or my apartment for the past 5 months?
While you had everything but good intentions with this thread, the way you worded it made it sound like you were grouping myself, NJ heather, Georgia heather, veronica, lemon, bacon, Haus, and all the rest of us into one little group of early to mid 20s party animals that can't hold down a decently intelligent conversation because we don't have some sort of degree (yet, for some of us) like you do.
Can you see how belittling that line made us feel when you made this thread? We had no idea who or what you were talking about at first. We can't just know your intentions, and it would have been better had you either left that line out or re-worded it.
For one thing, imature people always take offense to everything. They are just not mature enough to see the true meaning of what a person is saying. They are too wrapped up in their emotions.
Come on people. How many time have I got to say that. I like and respect you guys from what I've read.
You are know making me consider otherwise. You would never get this type of response from older people. But, older people on the other side of things don't have the fun and sense of humar as younger people do.
I'm here the fun, what about you?
Edit- BreakfastSurrel: What if my boyfriend was standing behind me reading this.
Woah, Hey, you got a point there! Sorry!
You keep telling us you respect us, and that you have no problems with us... but you insist on continually inputing lines like this second bolded one into your posts.
I'm immature because I was confused and taken off guard when you essentially called us all irresponsible party-goers?
That hurts.
I admit I'm immature, but my immaturity allows me to laugh at things. Like when my friends... say... Georgia Heather... calls me an immature tard. I'll laugh it off because I know her better than I know you.
Think of it this way.
Situation One: You're at your friends' house this football season watching the Colts destroy EVERYONE, and he calls you gay. All your friends laugh and you know he's joking.
Situation Two: You're walking down the sidewalk and some strange guy walks up to you and calls you gay. You're going to just laugh not knowing his intentions? Sorry, you're going to take offense to it... you don't know him, nor do you know if he's joking or being serious with you trying to start shit.
Now, apply the second hypothetical situation to this thread, on this forum... with your posts.
Yes, I get it... you really respect us, but you have to understand that, at least In My Opinion, what you did was disrespectful to everyone.
Anyway, Apology accepted.
