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Ladies! What do you wish men knew about women?
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freakofnature
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So you're saying that rback is a fake creep? :toothLOL nah I mean REAL creeps
acctnt shan
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Crying doesn't mean I'm weak.
Appreciate how much time I put into making myself look nice. Make me feel beautiful even on those days that I don't.
If you spend a little time making me feel nice and special first, I'll be a lot less likely to turn you away when you ask for certain sexual activities... hell, I'll be more likely to initiate them myself :ninja
Appreciate how much time I put into making myself look nice. Make me feel beautiful even on those days that I don't.
If you spend a little time making me feel nice and special first, I'll be a lot less likely to turn you away when you ask for certain sexual activities... hell, I'll be more likely to initiate them myself :ninja
Lol my wording does indicate that, but no...he's...oh my there's no way of getting out of this one
But the compliment needs to be sincere.
acctnt shan
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I would assume that a guy wouldn't be with a woman if he didn't sincerely think she was attractive or worth complimenting
I would assume that a guy wouldn't be with a woman if he didn't sincerely think she was attractive or worth complimenting
My point was if a woman craves the compliment and you give it just to get something from her it is insincere.
acctnt shan
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I think that there are times when guys think a woman looks good and just don't vocalize it. My point is that it's nice when a greater effort is made to show open appreciation - and this applies to both genders, to be honest. When I know that my man has gone to efforts to look good/smell good/etc., I try to express my appreciation of it.
I agree with you. I think sometimes we all suffer from a lack of self-esteem and hearing otherwise makes you feel good. I hate the questions "Is this too tight?" "Does this make me look big?" I always answer honestly because she wants to look good.
MjaneGibson
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I wish men understood that women (though it may not seem so at times) are fairly simple and don't require too much to keep them satisfied. It's the little things like picking up your favorite snack from the store or making the bed every once Ina while that make us know you care.
Couldn't have said it better........ And it happened with me over the last year or so that it's gotten much worse.. but maybe worse isn't the best choice of words for it.. more intense might be a better way to phrase it.
Drunk is worse here too
I am going to have to remember this one....
Show appreciation, I don't expect undying gratitude for every little thing I do, but a 'thank you' and and again is nice.
Don't EVER say you did me a favour when you did the laundry, washed the dishes, cleaned the bathroom, etc. It's your house too....it is not my soul responsibility to ensure it's neat and tidy.
If you give me a compliment and I say "oh, don't be silly" or something along those lines...it doesn't mean I don't appreciate the compliment, it means I don't know how to accept it by just saying "thank you". I like knowing you're happy to be out with me or are proud that we're together....
Don't EVER say you did me a favour when you did the laundry, washed the dishes, cleaned the bathroom, etc. It's your house too....it is not my soul responsibility to ensure it's neat and tidy.
If you give me a compliment and I say "oh, don't be silly" or something along those lines...it doesn't mean I don't appreciate the compliment, it means I don't know how to accept it by just saying "thank you". I like knowing you're happy to be out with me or are proud that we're together....
MjaneGibson
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:clap This!!
Ya I definitely agree.
My father expected praise for cleaning his own bathroom while my mother was in the hospital. UMMMM, you're not 3 anymore, you use it, you clean it. Wtf??
I'm gone from home for 2 weeks a month - my first rotation back he was telling me how he helped me out by cleaning the bathroom...umm...hello...I didn't even pee in there once in the past 14 days, how is that doing me a favour? He'll never say it again, hahaha.
It's tough...women are expected to earn a living and still keep the home neat and tidy...I know I feel guilty at times if I'm not on top of it.... it's just the way I was raised, that way of thinking has to change, shared incomes, shared responsibilities at home. I know a lot of couples have that sorted, but not all.
And you can't win, because he'll just say he's fine with filth and clutter. "You clean because you like to! I'm fine with it how it is!"
And you can't win, because he'll just say he's fine with filth and clutter. "You clean because you like to! I'm fine with it how it is!"
Oh no...he knows, he cleaned it and it was glistening, hahaha.
My wife and I divide the chores. I do the bulk of the yardwork. I dust & vacuum and do the wood floors if she asks. She takes care of the bathrooms. If I clean the bathrooms I am doing her a favor.
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