Ladies! What do you wish men knew about women?

[satinbutterfly]

A couple articles I've read gave me the idea for this. So ladies... what do you wish men knew about women?

For me, I wish they knew how to just let us vent and simply commiserate... not try and fix it or criticize how we handled the situation.

 

[NoDak]

A few of us have caught on to that, Satin.

 

[redliner]

pintrest

 

[Aeval]

A couple articles I've read gave me the idea for this. So ladies... what do you wish men knew about women?

For me, I wish they knew how to just let us vent and simply commiserate... not try and fix it or criticize how we handled the situation.

That was going to be mine.

A few of us have caught on to that, Satin.

Can you update the manual and send it out please, quite a few still haven't caught on.

 

[satinbutterfly]

Can you update the manual and send it out please, quite a few still haven't caught on.

:shesaid

I'll even give you a name and address to send it to.

 

[AUFred]

A couple articles I've read gave me the idea for this. So ladies... what do you wish men knew about women?

For me, I wish they knew how to just let us vent and simply commiserate... not try and fix it or criticize how we handled the situation.

I have tried to work on that one. I always felt it was my job to go slay the dragon as soon as my wife was unhappy. I have had to learn sometimes she just to bitch about the dragon.

 

[satinbutterfly]

Sometimes women are going to get upset over things men do or don't do that men don't find important. Just because men don't find those things important doesn't make it so. Men... try and care more about the fact that your woman is upset than what we're actually upset about. Please try and apply your 'fix it' nature to those situations (because that's where it's appropriate) vs. getting defensive and belittling women for what they're upset about. You'll lead a much happier life, I promise.

 

[Kakapo Dundee]

So far, this thread has explored only one theme.

 

[satinbutterfly]

Feelings?

It's funny... I expected this thread to blow up and the men's one to fizzle. And yet it's the opposite!

 

[darkcgi]

that's why you guys are a mystery that we cant understand
you purposely keep us in the dark so you have control
I see whats going on now

 

[Mercury]

For me, I wish they knew how to just let us vent and simply commiserate... not try and fix it or criticize how we handled the situation.

That is something that my wife and I have learned about each other. We both do it and sometimes all we want is to vent and get some sympathy and yet sometimes we do offer advice in a true hope to offer help.

 

[HK]

Men. You of all people should know, sometimes there's nothing like doing it for yourself. Stop pouting.

 

[teh_fuzz]

How about you ladies get your heads together and send us a manual on how to understand y'all... that would be an easier undertaking as we cannot "know anything about that which we do not understand"

In other words quit being so goddamn confusing! If you want someone to listen to your bitching and sip on a cup of coffee join a support group, go talk to your other female friends! You wanna know why?

Because even those men that listen to your problems and listen to you bitch are secretly fantasizing about motorboating your bewbies or other nether regions.

any man that says it isn't so is full of it!

*goes back to hiding... don't hurt me satin*

 

[Natasha]

I'm gonna take it a different direction and say that it would be nice if men realized that women want sex just as much as they do...sometimes moreso. IJS

 

[Mercury]

I'm gonna take it a different direction and say that it would be nice if men realized that women want sex just as much as they do...sometimes moreso. IJS

I call B.S. on that. LOL!

No, I guess that is true with some women ... I haven't met these types personally as of yet ...

 

[NoDak]

I call B.S. on that. LOL!

No, I guess that is true with some women ... I haven't met these types personally as of yet ...

What I wanna know is, where the hell was Tash when I was single?

 

[Mercury]

What I wanna know is, where the hell was Tash when I was single?

No shit huh?!?!? LMAO!

 

[Natasha]

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Maybe it's just me, then??? No, b/c I have several friends that are the same way. You guys have no clue how dirty we women talk when we're together. LOL

I've only found one man who could keep up w/ me so far. :dunno

 

[NoDak]

:24: :24: :24:


I've only found one man who could keep up w/ me so far. :dunno

I probably couldn't, anymore, but I'd have a helluva lotta fun trying!

 

[AUDRAA]

Im not sure how old you are Tasha but I know when I turned 30 it was like a switch turned on inside me and now I seem to have the same issue unfortunatly