Kind Guy/Tough Guy

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Dana

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Ive kindof realized something after these last few month. I always told myself that I wanted a nice guy.. A guy that would do anything for me... One that wouldnt ever hurt me.. etc. Well, I had that guy.. And I realized that I didnt want him. I dont want someone that wont argue with me once in a while and wont stand up to me.. I dont want a man that wont defend me because he is a wuss.. I dont want a man that will get butt hurt when I turn into a smart ass. (because I am alot- in a joking way).. I want the man that can defend himself and me if NEEDED.. I can pretty much hold my own. lol .. I want a man that will stand up to me (NOT hit me.. just let me know if I am out of line). I want a man thats not always nice.. (well he better be to me.. but I mean to other people)

So.. I guess what I am saying is The girls that say they want a NICE man, will always be tempted by the men that are the not so nice type. And thank GOD, I have my THUG LIFE! (KIDDING MATT!!)
I see what you're saying but on the other end of the spectrum you don't want a complete asshole. LOL@thug life!
 

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its the bad boy scenario, I love it!! Boomer is like that but to no one else but me he is a softie thats something i love, i totally understand where you are coming from V
 

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I don't even know what to say to this thread.

I respectfully agree with parts of it, and disagree with others. But I'm too out of it to try to think.
 

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Quaint. That is what I should have said earlier. Do not want the bad boy to hit you, but you want someone to stand up to you. Well, what if you are aggressive toward him?

What is he supposed to do? Cower? Fuck that. Call 911? Yeah, we wish. Then you would hit yourself, then blame us. Or some other billion other scenarios.

But then, if he was a total tool (wuss) then you would not be afraid of nothing, but would be a bossy little --.

You cannot have one over the other, and such balance is only in dreams.

Pick one or the other. Like electricity - it is either there, or not.
 
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