It's Not That You Aren't Good Enough For Someone Who Leaves You

[MainerMikeBrown]

Some people who's self esteem isn't as healthy as it should be think that if their lover leaves them, then that must mean that they aren't good enough for that person.

However, that is not true. It's not that you aren't good enough for that person. Instead, it's because you aren't compatable with that other person.

Their's a big difference.

It's one thing if you were physically and/or verbally abusive to your lover who left you. Other than that, you aren't any less of a person than the person who left you.

After all, nobody is better or worse than you, as we are all created equal.

 

[RUBESH]

That is a really positive and inspiring viewpoint. It's crucial to keep in mind that a breakup does not determine a person's worth. Relationships are complicated, and there are numerous reasons why they fail, and it isn't necessarily because one person is "better" or "worse" than the other. Compatibility is an important component in every relationship, and it's conceivable that two nice people aren't a good fit for each other. It is critical to focus on self-esteem and not allow a breakup dictate a person's perception of self-worth.

 

[astutimeliana723]

Yes, that's true I totally agree with you. Sometimes a person when left behind he feels down, blames himself. Even though it's not necessarily entirely our fault, it could be their fault who decided to leave. After all, if there is no match for let alone maintained, sooner or later one of them will definitely leave.

 

[eldavis]

The truth of the matter is that most persons simply do not know what they want. They might live you for someone else simply because they feel they can get something from that person, something they feel thay cannot get from you. So never feel you are not good enough or someone else is better than you.

 

[cherry123]

Yeah people leave for various reasons. it might not just be about you. it is just them trying to be the humans that they are.

 

[Chibson]

Breakup does not mean that you are so bad. It does not even mean that it is your own fault. So it is always important to have a very good self-esteem whenever you experience such situations in life.

 

[cherry123]

Sure it is always important to have a very good self-esteem whenever you experience this kind of things

 

[RUBESH]

I fully agree that people's self-esteem might influence how they interpret a break-up. It's vital to remember that congruence is an important aspect in a good relationship, and two individuals may just not be fit for each other, regardless of their specific characteristics.

 

[Stardom22]

Sometimes it's that they could get tired of the person's that they relate to them oftenly.