MainerMikeBrown
Active Member
Some people who's self esteem isn't as healthy as it should be think that if their lover leaves them, then that must mean that they aren't good enough for that person.
However, that is not true. It's not that you aren't good enough for that person. Instead, it's because you aren't compatable with that other person.
Their's a big difference.
It's one thing if you were physically and/or verbally abusive to your lover who left you. Other than that, you aren't any less of a person than the person who left you.
After all, nobody is better or worse than you, as we are all created equal.
However, that is not true. It's not that you aren't good enough for that person. Instead, it's because you aren't compatable with that other person.
Their's a big difference.
It's one thing if you were physically and/or verbally abusive to your lover who left you. Other than that, you aren't any less of a person than the person who left you.
After all, nobody is better or worse than you, as we are all created equal.