Partially family is important to me. I say partially because while I try my best to get along with my cousins and aunts/uncles on my mom's side of the family I haven't talked to my dad's side of the family in almost 15 years. My grandmother is a die hard catholic and I know she wouldn't be happy with how I live my life, she'd probably have some choice words to say to me. Part of me wants to talk to her again, she's not getting any younger and she does ask about me since my parents still go over to her house for Holidays. The other half is telling me don't open that can of worms.