Im having withdrawals

Maybe it can be put another way. I told my girlfriend that it's kinda like having my car... I love my car, I mean I really love my car and am completely satisfied with it. But when a fucking awesome car drives by me, I'll take a close look and give the owner proper respect. It doesn't mean that I am going to ditch my car and run out and get that one... not at all. My car may not be the prettiest or the fastest car in the world, but it is mine and I chose it, it was what I wanted.

Now to take this a little further... My girlfriend is a dancer, yes she dances at a gentlemen's club. So I go in to see her all the time, and I am surrounded by very beautiful women while I'm there. They all seem to sit together while their not on stage, and I'm usually sitting right in the middle of the pack, next to my girlfriend. This could create problems for both of us, me being jealous for her dancing for other men and her being jealous because I am surrounded by these beautiful girls. But it doesn't, because not only do we love each other, we trust each other. I know that she is doing her job and that while she is good at her job (making men feel special) I know that she only wants me, that she only loves me, and that she is coming home to me. This is because she chose me and is very happy with her choice... I know this because I see it in her eyes.
 
Men are visual creatures. That's one thing women will never quite understand. Men will go look for porn, but it seems like women have no real desire to. Don't get me wrong, if a woman get's a pic of a naked guy emailed to her from her friend she'll say "woo woo", but she won't go out of her way to see the nakie. Well, that's been my experience anyway.
 
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vshayes said:
you know what.. I have the same concerns.. but its my own fault. My body isnt the same it was when me and joe first met (due to giving birth to 2 children), so when I see naked chick, i feel like joe is more satisfied looking at her then looking at me. :(
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EXACTLY!
I know that he would never cheat on me. If he hasnt by now then I highly doubt he will. But, I looked a hell of a lot better before I had kids. And thats what really upsets me. I look back at pictures and I get depressed wishing I still looked like that. I dont think hes attracted to me anymore. I could be wrong, but if he is still attracted to me, its not like he use to be.
 
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Mrs Behavin said:
vshayes said:
you know what.. I have the same concerns.. but its my own fault. My body isnt the same it was when me and joe first met (due to giving birth to 2 children), so when I see naked chick, i feel like joe is more satisfied looking at her then looking at me. :(
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EXACTLY!
I know that he would never cheat on me. If he hasnt by now then I highly doubt he will. But, I looked a hell of a lot better before I had kids. And thats what really upsets me. I look back at pictures and I get depressed wishing I still looked like that. I dont think hes attracted to me anymore. I could be wrong, but if he is still attracted to me, its not like he use to be.
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Nahh, that's just how guys get when they've been married for a long time. We take everything for granit (sp) and don't know until it's too late. Typical male M.O. But the funny thing is other guys really want to get in your nappy dugout. Another one of lifes cruel tricks! *shakes fist at sky* DAMN YOU LIFE!
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Don get me wrong or anything, but, his friends like to egg him on. And if he says no, hes not going to the titty bar b/c he is respecting my feelings, his friends call him names and pick at him. Trying to get a rise outta him and that makes me mad that they push and push him.
 
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Mrs Behavin said:
Don get me wrong or anything, but, his friends like to egg him on. And if he says no, hes not going to the titty bar b/c he is respecting my feelings, his friends call him names and pick at him. Trying to get a rise outta him and that makes me mad that they push and push him.
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hey man... what are friends for? :D
 
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UncleBacon said:
what about all of us :dunno
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Im sorry. I was thinking mostly about ones that live here in the same town. But all you guys are awesome! Thank you guys so much for keeping me company the past 3 nights. You dont know how much I appreciate that. You, Bacon, stayed up with me for like 3 hrs talking and keeping me company, and redMULLT1 did and so did Lemon and 2000Si and time just flew by.
 
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Mrs Behavin said:
UncleBacon said:
what about all of us :dunno
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Im sorry. I was thinking mostly about ones that live here in the same town. But all you guys are awesome! Thank you guys so much for keeping me company the past 3 nights. You dont know how much I appreciate that. You, Bacon, stayed up with me for like 3 hrs talking and keeping me company, and redMULLT1 did and so did Lemon and 2000Si and time just flew by.
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thats what true friends are for... not letting you get to sleep :D :booze
 
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Mrs Behavin said:
Well, just an update. I just got off the phone with Robert(Bossman) and he didnt go to no titty bars while he was in Memphis! What a relief! You dont know how much of a weight is lifted off my chest!
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They got some really good ones there. I know. They get down and drity there. Those lap dances there are great! :banana
 
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