Maybe it can be put another way. I told my girlfriend that it's kinda like having my car... I love my car, I mean I really love my car and am completely satisfied with it. But when a fucking awesome car drives by me, I'll take a close look and give the owner proper respect. It doesn't mean that I am going to ditch my car and run out and get that one... not at all. My car may not be the prettiest or the fastest car in the world, but it is mine and I chose it, it was what I wanted.
Now to take this a little further... My girlfriend is a dancer, yes she dances at a gentlemen's club. So I go in to see her all the time, and I am surrounded by very beautiful women while I'm there. They all seem to sit together while their not on stage, and I'm usually sitting right in the middle of the pack, next to my girlfriend. This could create problems for both of us, me being jealous for her dancing for other men and her being jealous because I am surrounded by these beautiful girls. But it doesn't, because not only do we love each other, we trust each other. I know that she is doing her job and that while she is good at her job (making men feel special) I know that she only wants me, that she only loves me, and that she is coming home to me. This is because she chose me and is very happy with her choice... I know this because I see it in her eyes.
Now to take this a little further... My girlfriend is a dancer, yes she dances at a gentlemen's club. So I go in to see her all the time, and I am surrounded by very beautiful women while I'm there. They all seem to sit together while their not on stage, and I'm usually sitting right in the middle of the pack, next to my girlfriend. This could create problems for both of us, me being jealous for her dancing for other men and her being jealous because I am surrounded by these beautiful girls. But it doesn't, because not only do we love each other, we trust each other. I know that she is doing her job and that while she is good at her job (making men feel special) I know that she only wants me, that she only loves me, and that she is coming home to me. This is because she chose me and is very happy with her choice... I know this because I see it in her eyes.