if a girl makes more $ than a guy...

[Jersey]

i was having a conversation with one of my best friends today.. and her and i were joking around about going guy hunting this weekend... and she said to me "well, you'd have to hit up wall street- cuz everyone else is out of your league" i asked her what that was supposed to mean.. she said "no guy wants to be with a girl that makes more money than him..."


is this really true... like as in you wouldn't be interested in starting a relationship with a female if she makes more money than you? i know guys have their pride and all, but do i send off the "get lost if you dont make 6 figures vibe?"

honestly... cuz until today, i never thought i did....

 

[AUDRAA]

I dont get that impression form you at all, but I do know that some men are touchy about that stuff Aaron was pissed at me when he found out I was making more than him

 

[GuesSAngel]

goodness, do you make 6 figures?????

 

[GuesSAngel]

i don't think every guy is like that.

 

[Jersey]

no- i dont... not yet anyway!

 

[GuesSAngel]

haha well shit, i'll marry ya...i'm sure tim won't mind. And I won't mind that you make more than me

but seriously, i don't think all guys are like that...but some are, they feel the need that they should be the one that's supporting the family.

 

[Jersey]

isnt it 2007 for god's sake???

 

[AUDRAA]

hell Ill marry you too and Im not married so we are all good

 

[Kat]

not all guys are like that though there are some that are...also some like that can deal with it anyways if they meet a girl great like you

 

[Jersey]

aww kat!!! youre so sweet!

 

[GuesSAngel]

isnt it 2007 for god's sake???

yes it is, and 2 married women are fine, don't worry it's more accepted now. haha j/k yes i know what you mean, but there are some guys that still think that way...probably because of the way they were brought up.

 

[AUDRAA]

I think its a pride thing

 

[Jersey]

hahahaha alicia

 

[Jersey]

so when i get my doctorate.. i can only marry a doctor...


i dont even like most doctors..

 

[AUDRAA]

nah youll find someone who doesnt care just dont let him know how much you make right away

 

[Kat]

ditto what audra said...cause on top of what you brought up...you dont need any guy thinking he can mooch off you either

 

[TheOriginalJames]

I dunno maybe I just don't have much pride, but if a girl I'm dating made more money than me (which really most girls my age that I graduated with DO make more money than me) I wouldn't care one bit, as long as I'm not sittin there supporting her while she's blowing all her money on whatever when bills are due.

 

[NightWarrior]

Well she is in Jersey, 6 figures is living poor up there. I think it sucks when the woman makes more than the man, but who cares times are a changin. I doubt that would happen to me, but hey if so, more power to her.

 

[AUDRAA]

ok that was rude conceited and cocky

 

[Jersey]

ok.. elaborate on that though... why does it suck? cuz of your pride? or what?