I musta missed it all, lied bout what? I'm out in the cold without a coat here.
How forgiving a person are you?
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Join the club youth. If they want us to know they'll tell us.
Personally, forgiveness is easy, but never forget. that stops people taking the piss!
Personally, forgiveness is easy, but never forget. that stops people taking the piss!
I'm not very forgiving. I hold grudges for YEARS.
If I do forgive, I seldom forget.
If I do forgive, I seldom forget.
i forgot what thisa thread was abootr
its something i struggle with ,but try hard to do because thats the right thing to do.
carrying resentment and anger around isnt healthy or helpful to anyone
easier said than done for everyone...i must try harder,i must try harder
carrying resentment and anger around isnt healthy or helpful to anyone
easier said than done for everyone...i must try harder,i must try harder
it depends......
Being a person who's done unforgivable things in my past, I could list some, but some of you would never look at me the same way. So I will defer comment.
i can forgive though it is a hard thing to do.
I can't forget.. I hold grudges; i tend to keep them to myself but the grudges are still there.
I can't forget.. I hold grudges; i tend to keep them to myself but the grudges are still there.
I look at the situation, decide upon its impact in my life and forgive based upon that. The real obstacle to overcome is the realization that perfection doesn't exist. But we all want to be treated perfectly. Yes, it can be so disappointing when some perceived "wrong" is done. What makes it hard for me is when I ask or request for a certain thing, whatever it may be, and then my words aren't taken seriously. I have a harder time forgiving when my wishes or thoughts have been ignored. Some things, sadly, are unforgivable. The ironic thing is that even though I couldn't forgive the person that did something unforgiveable, I could continue to love him, albeit from a distance. That messes with my mind.