Having sex dreams when in a relationship

[Haus]

Some people i ask this to say yes it is and some say no its not.

but is having a sexual dream about someone other then your partner conciderd cheating?? in the physical sense it wouldnt be but what are your thoughts on it.

 

[satinbutterfly]

You can't control your unconscious mind, so I would say no, it's not cheating.

 

[RedRyder]

I agree. You dream what you dream. So be it.

BTW Haus..... you've been in my dreams. Just sayin'......

 

[jassilem]

I think Jenn said it right.

 

[Brujahpriest]

The dream itself I wouldnt consider cheating, however if those sleeping dreams become waking dreams... and or... fantasies, then I would say its time to talk to one's partner (still not cheating, but may indicate a desire one has not yet acknolodged or dealt with)

 

[satinbutterfly]

The dream itself I wouldnt consider cheating, however if those sleeping dreams become waking dreams... and or... fantasies, then I would say its time to talk to one's partner (still not cheating, but may indicate a desire one has not yet acknolodged or dealt with)

I think we should discuss these fantasies. :ninja

 

[Butterfly]

I don't think that is cheating. It's not like you control what you dream.

 

[Tyler Durden]

You can't control your unconscious mind, so I would say no, it's not cheating.

:homo:

Consider it just a bonus!

 

[satinbutterfly]

:homo:

Consider it just a bonus!

I've dreamed about you... just sayin. :ninja

 

[Tyler Durden]

I've dreamed about you... just sayin. :ninja

Are you setting me up for a fall here by telling me it was a nightmare X

 

[satinbutterfly]

Are you setting me up for a fall here by telling me it was a nightmare X

Absolutely not. Why would I be so cruel to you, when you've been so sweet to me?

 

[Tyler Durden]

Absolutely not. Why would I be so cruel to you, when you've been so sweet to me?

Mmmmm

You need to cmere.

Soooooooo

Being a guy.......was I........erm.......okay!?

 

[Laurs]

No, its not cheating. You can't control your dreams, and as long as your happy with the person your with ... Saying you have cheated in a dream and blaming you for it is like blaming for you saying you think someone is attractive. Theres nothing wrong with saying someone is attractive. It's not like you can control your dreams so I wouldnt worry,. And i wouldnt worry your other half by mentioning them

 

[satinbutterfly]

Mmmmm

You need to cmere.

Soooooooo

Being a guy.......was I........erm.......okay!?

:nod::ninja

 

[BadBoy@TheWheel]

I'm not sure how to answer this..

Okay, well here's what happened...

My wife shot up from a deep slumber one night and was frantic...

She said "I had this horrible dream I was grabbed and being sodomized by a total stranger"

Annnnd as I pulled my finger out of her butt I said "Oh my God honey.....That's horrible"

 

[AnitaBeer]

You can't control your unconscious mind, so I would say no, it's not cheating.

This gorgeous lady said it! :homo:

 

[Dana]

You can't control your unconscious mind, so I would say no, it's not cheating.

:homo:

 

[Dana]

this is just like the "I'm in a relationship so I don't have to masturbate" debate!

 

[cam elle toe]

I'm not sure how to answer this..

Okay, well here's what happened...

My wife shot up from a deep slumber one night and was frantic...

She said "I had this horrible dream I was grabbed and being sodomized by a total stranger"

Annnnd as I pulled my finger out of her butt I said "Oh my God honey.....That's horrible"

:24::24::24:

 

[StanJon]

I'm not sure how to answer this..

Okay, well here's what happened...

My wife shot up from a deep slumber one night and was frantic...

She said "I had this horrible dream I was grabbed and being sodomized by a total stranger"

Annnnd as I pulled my finger out of her butt I said "Oh my God honey.....That's horrible"

That's nasty! :24: