Guys and girls would you cheat?

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MaterialGirl25

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Guys if you really loved a girl.. and you were going out with her.. and say you were out with a few friends.. and you meet up with this hot chick.. and she tries to seduces you.. would you go ahead and cheat on your girlfriend??? or would you control yourself.. some guys would just do it and regret it later.. tell us what you would do in that scenario.. imagin she was hot and sexy.. and your girlfriend was waiting at home for you.. and she trusts you fully.. what would you do.. ?

and girls would you go ahead and cheat or would you control yourself?
 
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Kat

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this doesnt even take a second for me to think over...No i would never cheat....not ever. I love him why would i want to hurt him
 

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I'm going to say no, I wouldn't cheat. For a variety of reasons: love, responsibility, loyalty, for instance.

Because of past events, I can say that I would definitely never, ever cheat for sex.
 

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Never would ever cheat. I just couldnt see myself going thru with it. He would be on my mind the entire time.
 

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hmm only if it was a really hot woman! :p hahaha. well that doesn't really count as cheating in my relationship since matt doesnt care about girls. but if it was a hot GUY no id never consider it!
 

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I would never put my love through such pain. Breaking someone's heart is close if not worse then losing someone to death. IMO.
 

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Not a chance - it takes years to build up a loving & honest relationship, there's no way I would blow it, except if it was Angeline Jolie, hey she's allowed to if it's Brad Pitt.

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I heard a comedian once say that he tried to make that deal with his wife. They could both pick one person that it would be OK with. She went the never gonna happen celebrity route and said Shaquille O'Neal and then he said our neighbor Diane.
 

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i would never cheat intentionally and especially when i know my wife and i have an extremely amazin future together. if i did that then what kind of a husband would i be? and since we're not even off our honeymoon yet i think that would be sincerely stupid.
 

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One time i was going out with this jerk face.. I went out with him for two years.. i dont know why!! guess i was kinda scared of him :-( he was pretty violent, drank heaps.. and did a few drugs.. would get angry at me all the time, everytime i come home he would be very very angry and violent to me - drunk as well.. and everytime i would break it off he wouldnt let me.. we lived together, he didnt help me pay the rent or bond so i couldnt kick him out.. i thought he was ok in the very start.. before we moved in together, everything was all sweet.. that was like 10 months before we moved into together... he moved in with his brother, and his brother had this flatmate who was a young uni student.. female name Amy.. she was into drugs and partying.. i met her, she was nice to my face.. in that time my boyfriend in that stage had sex with her.. and i dont know how many times.. but he didnt tell me before we moved in together otherwise i wouldnt let him move in.. but he told me one night.. after 10months later.. bought me flowers a few nights before telling me, he told me that he had sex with her.. and then i slapped him and said that its over.. and hitted him, wacking him in the face and head.. then i just told him that his a dic..k head etc.. and then he got angry, he wasnt even like sorry to me.. he was just angry that i was pissed off and crying.. but then i left.. i had to stay with him for awhile in the few months after, he still didnt move all his stuff out, i said its over to him.. but in his mind he would think that were together.. he was obsessive! he would accuse me of cheating when he would do it himself.. and then finally i move out, cuz his mum helped me.. she moved all his stuff out, i found a nice studio.. and left.. he end with skitzafrena - sorry cant spell.. but he wouldnt act like him self.. he end up in hospital. right now he doesnt know where i live, still im scared to just bump into him in the street :-( cuz in know his out.. he always tries to ring me etc.. but now i found someone else at my work and he is great, never ever put a hand on me.. he buys me so many things, takes me out.. its been nearly 2 years already and think he is the one..we are so getting married :) happy ending.. he is the sweetest guy in the world! and thats what love is..
 
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Ha, I had a very interesting conversation with my dad today in the car. He was kinda complaining about how Jamie lives 15 minutes away, and I should get a nice local girl. He said I'm too young, and I should keep my options open with many girls. He seemed to be forgetting that I've been with Jamie for almost a year and a half. He was basically telling me to see different girls all the time. Interesting parenting methods, I know. So then I asked him how he would like it if he did that with my mom. He then said that he would love to have a couch potato at home, and a party girl on the weekends :D. I then accused him of being a bigomist. :D

Lol, I thought that this conversation would be very appropriate.

But yeah, my thoughts on cheating are pretty much represented in how I stood in that conversation. I'm a somewhat traditional person when it comes to relationships. A guy needs to be able to listen to what his partner is okay and not okay with. It really just depends on the relationship. But cheating, whether its allowed or not, can lead to pretty bad things, emotionally. If neither person cares, that says something about how they feel about each other.
 
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