Guys and girls would you cheat?

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ouachiski

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Im a bad liar so I would definately get cought but thats not the reason y I wouldnt cheat. I have been cheated on and know how it feels even in a fairly short relationship so I couldnt do that to anyone.
 
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it is a horrible feelin when u know that u're bein cheated on, especially when its by someone u really love and can see a massive future together.
 

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what really gets me is how people, single or not, will say i wouldnt mind cheatin on my partner and then they start havin an affair but when their partner cheats on them they go mental and start hurtin and upsettin the other 1.
 

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How could you cheat when you are in love? if you don't love the person maybe you could think about it... but when in love? that makes no sense
 

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That makes sense
when you love someone, you don't even think about other people, they are simply not interessting to you anymore. I believe that when a couple is 100% good, no other person can come between them. If someone is unfaithful, clearly it doesn't love the other person. You may care for that person, but real love doesn't cheat, not because it doesn't want to or knows it's wrong, but because it doesn't even think there is that possibility.
 

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I agree with Mari on this,

My thoughts have always been that if you feel the need or desire to Cheat on your SO, then there is a problem, you can choose to try and find the problem, and fix it.. If you dont, Then at least have the respect enough to end the relationship rather then lie to yourself and continue in it when you know you are being unfaithful.
 

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when you love someone, you don't even think about other people, they are simply not interessting to you anymore. I believe that when a couple is 100% good, no other person can come between them. If someone is unfaithful, clearly it doesn't love the other person. You may care for that person, but real love doesn't cheat, not because it doesn't want to or knows it's wrong, but because it doesn't even think there is that possibility.

I think we've agreed on this before. :tongue:
 

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I'm with Maritxu too. If you really do love the person you're with, I can't see a simple lust for somebody else coming between the love you have for your partner.
 

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I'm with Maritxu too. If you really do love the person you're with, I can't see a simple lust for somebody else coming between the love you have for your partner.

And to twist this slightly: it works the other way around too. If you don't love the person you're with, I can certainly see how love for someone else could tear apart a relationship built on responsibility and loyalty alone.
 

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And to twist this slightly: it works the other way around too. If you don't love the person you're with, I can certainly see how love for someone else could tear apart a relationship built on responsibility and loyalty alone.
I agree with you on this. Well said :)
 
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