Fear of letting people in my life.

[Tazzy]

i dont know why but i have this fear of letting people in my life. im not very social with people i dont know. its not a shy thing i dont think. more like i dont have interest in talking to anyone. if someone trys to have a convo with me im very short with what i say and i nod my head a lot and in my head im saying "are you still talking. stop talking and get the fuck away from me"

i dont want to be like this and i was never like this when i was younger.

obviously this stops me from making new friends and having a girlfriend.

so i guess i have a fear of socializing with people and dont like people in my space all to much unless i know them already. like if im in a store and someones right behind me or near me, i get all paranoid and shit and just walk away with out what i need and curse them out under my breath.


what are yalls opinions on it and how do you think i can get over this. its kinda ruining my life.

and i put it in this section cause this problem i have stops me from having any relationships and new friendships.

Haus sweetie i think weve talk about this before havent we :dunno :dunno

 

[Haus]

did we??? i dont remember. this is a kind of recent thing.

 

[Tazzy]

well i remember talking to you about your weight loss and self esteem ........Dont you ???

 

[Haus]

yeah i remember talking about that. but this isnt a self esteem problem.

 

[hhayes]

either way haus, you shouldn't worry about anything, i don't know you personally, but from what i do know, your just awesome!

 

[BooFetus]

Re: RE: Fear of letting people in my life.

either way haus, you shouldn't worry about anything, i don't know you personally, but from what i do know, your just awesome!

Again, I must agree with somebody. You seem like an awesome guy. You even made it into our Sexy Men thread.

 

[Stardom22]

As a person you can't fail to have some few people that you can trust in your life.

 

[cherry123]

I have this problem also I find it difficult letting people into my life but I love to socialise. I think it is to create a balance and check out those we want to let into our lives

 

[Urvashi]

I completely understand that fear—it’s tough to be vulnerable. Opening up can feel risky, especially after past experiences. But I think it’s also where growth happens. It’s about trusting the right people and taking small steps to let others in, at your own pace.

 

[cherry123]

Struggling to let people into your life stem from various emotional, psychological, and social factors. you might not need Emotional Attachment or feel a sense of loyalty or love that makes it hard to let go.

 

[monaco66]

That's strange, because generally when people are like that they have a reason for being, but taking into account that you don't know and have no idea why, I honestly don't know what to advise you, but you're supposed to live your life the way you want. I don't understand how it's that you don't want to socialize but at the same time you do, decide whether you socialize or not! There's nothing more to it than that.