Every womans Dream

[Darkstar]

There is such a thing as too big of a dream.

Maybe if women dreamt of men who drink beer, watch football and scratched themselves in places that would get them arrested in public, the world would be a better place.

I dream of a woman who doesn't think I have to be romantic 24/7 to know that I'd love her, a woman who's not afraid to be a little bit disgusting at times, a woman who doesn't think she needs to spend 4 hours getting ready to look nice...
But, as I said there is such a thing as too big of a dream.

I take thirty minutes to get ready, tops...including the shower. I prolly belch louder than you do. And i certainly wouldnt mind sharing a few beers over the game.

Whaddya say, Jamie?

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Again with your living too far away...

 

[Darkstar]

Again with your living too far away...

Star crossed lovers....*sob*

 

[Veronica]

I only take about 10 minutes to get ready (w/o shower). With shower maybe 20 minutes. I dont expect a man to be romantic 24/7, but its nice to have alittle "love" occassionally.

 

[Veronica]

also..
U guys have some stupid things that yall require!

- girls shouldnt burp
- girls shouldnt fart
- Girls need to be skinny
- girls need to cook
- girls need to clean
- girls need to always looks good
- ect
- ect
- ect!!!

Its rediculous the things you guys expect out of girls/woman.

 

[lala]

It takes me about 10 minutes to get ready with out a shower, and about 20 with a shower. Whether I do my make up and get all dressed up or if Im being casual, It doesn't take me long to get ready.

My husband is romantic, or sweet quite a bit of the time, but definitely not 24/7. And I still know he loves me. And as far as being "disgusting" once in awhile... lol talk to my husband! I think I burp and all that more than he does haha...

 

[TheOriginalJames]

also..
U guys have some stupid things that yall require!

- girls shouldnt burp
- girls shouldnt fart
- Girls need to be skinny
- girls need to cook
- girls need to clean
- girls need to always looks good
- ect
- ect
- ect!!!

Its rediculous the things you guys expect out of girls/woman.

I don't necessarily want girls to start farting and burping and being skinny or become my cook or maid...

I just want you to be a happy person, tell me straight up whats wrong if I ask, don't ask me if a dress makes you look fat.

That whole twenty minute thing, yeah sure for work. But if you're going out the makeup kits come out and the hair needs to be done up all pretty.

I expect you to be yourself.

 

[AUDRAA]

I don't necessarily want girls to start farting and burping and being skinny or become my cook or maid...

I just want you to be a happy person, tell me straight up whats wrong if I ask, don't ask me if a dress makes you look fat.

That whole twenty minute thing, yeah sure for work. But if you're going out the makeup kits come out and the hair needs to be done up all pretty.

I expect you to be yourself.

Hmm are you sure? Im pretty sure sometimes you might not want to hear.
As far as the rest of youre requirements James why arent you taken yet?

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Because I'm too paranoid, socially phobic, I hate expressing myself, and I like to be left alone.

 

[AUDRAA]

wow arent you a buzz kill :dunno:

 

[Veronica]

It takes me the same time to get ready to go out as to go to work. I tend to do stuff alot faster with kids.

You may say that your ok with those things, but believe me, First, you wouldnt even look at a girl if she was fat.. What typically catches a mans eyes is the body. and about talking to you.. well believe me, girls like to talk. Its the guys that say, I dont have time. Believe me, I hear that shit every day!

 

[Peter Parka]

also..
U guys have some stupid things that yall require!

- girls shouldnt burp
- girls shouldnt fart
- Girls need to be skinny
- girls need to cook
- girls need to clean
- girls need to always looks good
- ect
- ect
- ect!!!

Its rediculous the things you guys expect out of girls/woman.

My missus dosen't follow any of the above rules but I love her more than any one. There's too much crap written about love. Love as far as I'm concerned is about accepting the other persons differences, being comfortable around them and enjoying your time with them, not some starry eyed romantic thing. Romance is great but when you see them at their worse, that is when you can tell if you love them.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

It takes me the same time to get ready to go out as to go to work. I tend to do stuff alot faster with kids.

You may say that your ok with those things, but believe me, First, you wouldnt even look at a girl if she was fat.. What typically catches a mans eyes is the body. and about talking to you.. well believe me, girls like to talk. Its the guys that say, I dont have time. Believe me, I hear that shit every day!

I hate it when women tell me what I would and wouldn't look at, and what I do and don't find attractive on a woman.

Sure, I look at a womans body first... but I typically don't pay attention to ANY women until I get to dive into their personality.

Girls like to talk, the trick is knowing when the guy doesn't want to listen. If it's all the time he's an ass.

 

[Veronica]

I hate it when women tell me what I would and wouldn't look at, and what I do and don't find attractive on a woman.

Sure, I look at a womans body first... but I typically don't pay attention to ANY women until I get to dive into their personality.

Girls like to talk, the trick is knowing when the guy doesn't want to listen. If it's all the time he's an ass.

Im not telling you what you would and wouldnt look at.. And you just admitted to looking at a females body first. Even if you dont pay attention to any of them until you know their personality, you STILL look at their appearance first.

Guys are hard wired like that. There is nothing that can change it. It just sucks when you arent the girl that the man you love is looking at.

James, I know you quite well from here and I know you are a good guy. Im sure you dont just look at appearances. Some guys are different, its just rare.

But, lets say that angelina jolie (or whoever actress is your favorite) walks up to you and asks to you take her now.... Would you? Or it could even be a regular chick that walks up and your eyes are boinging out of your head, and she asks you on a date... would you turn her down? You wouldnt know her personality yet??

 

[TheOriginalJames]

angelina jolie? hell no. Daisy fuentes, i'd take her out and if I didn't like her personality I wouldn't ever give myself that option again.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

But yeah I look at the body first, the personality is more important though. I met a chica named Sarah at Ingram when I worked there. She was smokin hot, but I ignored her until she started talking to me. Then i noticed just how down to earth she was, and how she didn't think she was so good looking. When her personality turned out to be like that, I started diggin on her. By the time I got around to asking her out she'd gone back to her old fling.

Not all guys want the super skinny ditzy blonde haired braindead chic that will give them nothing but a BJ. I want some depth, some perception, someone who is their own person, get to know me, and can put up with my pig headed ways.

That person don't exist. So I stopped bothering with trying to find a woman. It's just too much hassle, and from all of my prvious dates it seems they only care to look out for themselves and don't give anyone a chance. But then whine when only the guys who are trying to get in their pants are the only ones coming up to talk to them.

I guss my problem with the bar scene and dating in general is guys must always make the first move. Subtle and obvious hints don't work with me. I won't pick up on them until I know the womans PERSONALITY, so it becomes a vicious cycle of never meeting anyone.

 

[Tim]

James, that mountain won't climb itself. You have to be willing to risk scraping your knee or twisting your ankle to sumit the mountain.
Not being able to pick up on subtle hints by girls is due to lack of experience. That's something that you have to learn by interacting with strangers. Try going out to a bar that you are not familiar with, all by yourself. Look for someone that seems interesting and sit next to them at the bar. Don't go in looking for a potential date, just go in with the sole purpose of having a drink. Strike up a casual conversation, no personal questions and let them control the conversation.
If you would do this once a week, after a few months, you would be amazed how easy you will find it to walk up to a strange girl and start a simple conversation. The type of conversation that the girl won't back off because you will come off as non threatening.

I say this, because I was very much like you years ago. I wasn't able to effectively talk to girls without being friends first. I wasn't comfortable and it showed all over me. This made it next to impossible to meet anyone worth meeting. Once I figured out my problem, I went about fixing it. I went to strange bars (because it's socially exceptable to go alone to a bar) and made it my goal to meet at least 3 people. It sucked at first, but after a few weeks, my confidence grew and I found it very easy to walk into a room where I don't know anyone and make myself at home. This is the best skill you can have to meet women... confidence.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Yeah I know. haha All the things you just said I've figured out... it's just my lack of interest in doing it. I have a problem in social situations. I'm one of those guys that would rather sit around with friends I've known for years than go meet new people.

I can't pick up on hints that well, because one is partially due to inexperience, slash, it's been too long since I've done it. The other part is it just seems pointless. I hate doing it, most women hate being hit on when they're out to just have a drink, and others will do it just to get a drink out of you.

So far I've just looked at the mountain, I just don't have the patience to start up it.

 

[sharpies]

V, women are just the same as man in that respect. In my late teens I hung around with a guy who was extremely good looking - he was able to get with almost any woman that he wanted. Sure he had a great personality & was confident but the short fat ugly guys don't even get a chance to show their personalities.

Allan

 

[TheOriginalJames]

V, women are just the same as man in that respect. In my late teens I hung around with a guy who was extremely good looking - he was able to get with almost any woman that he wanted. Sure he had a great personality & was confident but the short fat ugly guys don't even get a chance to show their personalities.

Allan

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